3 Little Words Equal More Power To You!

Written by Richard Vegas


Life shouldn't be so complicated. Have you ever wondered why it is? Have you ever thought; "why can't I figure this out?" Have you ever said; "I don't have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem?" Why are our lives so complicated?

And Even My Reality Check Bounced!

I think living is a lot simpler than what we realize. I think living can be boiled down to three words. Listen, then Act! Listen to what? Act on what? How about listening to that still quiet voice inside your head that is constantly trying to get your attention?

How many times have you had a big issue to deal with and had a thought that you just let pass. Maybe you thought; "no, that won't fix it!" Then another; "nah…that's notrepparttar answer either." Now granted, maybe it didn't look likerepparttar 123406 right solution. Maybe it just didn't haverepparttar 123407 right feel, or some elements seemed to be missing.

Well, hardly is any solution as clear as crystal when it first comes to light. There are always some facets of it that need to be hammered out. And, that requires some more "listening." But, most ofrepparttar 123408 time we go running off half cocked with partial information and cause ourselves a big pain inrepparttar 123409 neck.

Earlier we said living can be boiled down to three words. Listen then Act. Acting is only half of what we need to do to bring success. The problem is; most people spend ninety percent ofrepparttar 123410 time focused onrepparttar 123411 acting and ten percent focused onrepparttar 123412 listening, if any at all.

Waiting Lasts Too Long!

Inherent in listening is an element of patience. And most ofrepparttar 123413 time, we find ourselves long on need and short on patience. Living in a microwave world makes it tough to live patiently. But, learningrepparttar 123414 art of listening will make patience seem more tolerable.

Here's why. Waiting on something we desperately need, makes us feel like we are idle and irresponsible. Keepingrepparttar 123415 patience makes us feel like we're doing nothing.

We keep havingrepparttar 123416 feeling, "we should be doing something." Maybe you have heardrepparttar 123417 saying, "if it is to be, it's up to me!" Maybe so, but, not necessarily Tonto. You have some help you may not even know about.

Patience just doesn't conjure uprepparttar 123418 right kind of emotions in us to be still that long. The morerepparttar 123419 time passesrepparttar 123420 more impatient we become. But, Listening seems to be, and feels more like a pro-active function that we can tolerate.

Easy AS ABC!

It feels, at least somewhat, that we are doing something constructive torepparttar 123421 completion of this problem. Andrepparttar 123422 good part about listening is, that it's our spirit trying to give usrepparttar 123423 answers we need.

But, to make this an analogy; our spirit is a perfect gentleman/lady. He never imposes himself on our desires. If we want to go off half cocked, he will just be silent till we calm down. When we finally get quiet, he will give leading once again.

Maybe that just answered a question that many have had about why inspiration comes so sporadically. Have you ever had to wait tillrepparttar 123424 fifty ninth second to get an answer you needed?

Atrepparttar 123425 very last moment of truth, you were finally and totally out of all answers, ready to just let happen whatever was going to happen, and inrepparttar 123426 quietness of your mind and body your spirit sendsrepparttar 123427 answer. Personally, for me, this happens mostly when I'm totally out of all resources to help myself.

Getting Over The Hump!

Have you ever said this to someone; "the answer is just onrepparttar 123428 tip of my tongue?" That's a pretty good sign you need to get quiet and spend a little time listening to your spirit. He's trying to give you answers and you are too busy doing "stuff", that's going nowhere, and wandering around, for forty years, onrepparttar 123429 back side ofrepparttar 123430 desert.

Writing Your Personal Vision/Mission Statement

Written by Cecile Petekrin


I recently spent some time revising my personal vision/mission statement for my coaching practice. While doing this, it occurred to me thatrepparttar vision I have for my work is closely related to my personal vision. Having a job that reflects my personal vision is powerful because it has allowed me to create a business life for myself that truly reflects who I am. Companies know all about vision and mission statements and getting their employees on board. Vision and mission statements propelrepparttar 123405 company inrepparttar 123406 direction that they want, and ultimately towards success. Many of us have spent countless hours working on these statements for our employers, and doing our part to contribute to their vision as a part ofrepparttar 123407 team.

Much like a business, we, as human beings have a purpose or mission in life. What if we spent as much time getting to know who we are and what we want for ourselves? A personal vision/mission statement isrepparttar 123408 framework for creating a powerful life. Unlike a goal, a vision or mission rarely changes. It is a reason for our existence. It guides us inrepparttar 123409 decisions we make andrepparttar 123410 directions we take.

Your Personal Vision Close your eyes and picture yourself inrepparttar 123411 future. It may be a few months or years from today. Seerepparttar 123412 person you are; what you are doing, who you are with, what you have accomplished, what is important to you, and how people relate to you. How does it feel to be you? Feelrepparttar 123413 person you are, your true self. Now, open your eyes and see your life and yourself inrepparttar 123414 present, through those eyes. You will begin to noticerepparttar 123415 changes you need to make to honour this vision and lead a powerful life.

A Personal Vision is a picture of your True Self inrepparttar 123416 future. An effective personal vision includes allrepparttar 123417 important elements of your life and career; it is who you want to be, what you want to do, how you want to feel, what you want to own, and who you want to associate with. Although your personal vision helps you to see intorepparttar 123418 future, it must be grounded inrepparttar 123419 present. It is a statement of who you are, and who you are becoming. It isrepparttar 123420 framework forrepparttar 123421 process of creating your life.

Your vision is where you are headed, how you get there is your mission statement.

Your Personal Mission Statement

A Personal Mission Statement is how you will manifest your Personal Vision in your daily life. It may be a few words or several pages, but it is not a “to do” list. It reflects your uniqueness and must speak to you powerfully aboutrepparttar 123422 person you are andrepparttar 123423 person you are becoming. Remember, it’s okay to be where you are, while heading somewhere else. In fact,repparttar 123424 only place you can start, is where you are right now. Having a personal vision does not mean your life changes overnight. But it will change. Your personal mission statement providesrepparttar 123425 steps to get you there. Your Personal Mission Statement should answer three questions:

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