27 Tips to a Successful PromWritten by Lisa Jay
Print out this checklist and follow it to ensure that you are ready for Prom.Four Months before Prom: ___Set Budget - Find out how much money your parents are willing to contribute to your prom. Start to earn and save money to cover difference. ___Magazines - Buy a few Prom magazines and look through them to find retailers of dresses and accessories. ___Dress - Start to get ideas of what type of dress you would like to buy. Cut out pictures from magazines and start a scrap book. ___Hairstyles - Clip potential hairstyles from books and websites. ___Skin Care - Time to get your skin looking its best. Drink a lot of water, eat fruit, exercise, and wash your face nightly before going to bed. Make sure that you keep up this regiment until Prom. ___Schedule Dental Appointment - Make an appointment for two weeks prior to your prom. This way your smile can be it’s brightest. ___Get Guy - Pick out your perfect dream date and make sure that he decides that you are his perfect date as well. Three Months before Prom: ___Order your Dress - Shopping for a dress can be done on-line or locally. With your ideas already in a scrap book and your magazines listing local retailers you should be ready to find perfect dress. ___Alterations - Don’t put this off. Get your alterations done early. It does not cost a lot and having a perfect fit is worth it! ___Accessories - You’ve got dress, but don’t stop there. You have to have a knock out pair of earrings, necklace and shoes to complete look. Make sure that you buy a small handbag to match your dress. You will need something to carry cash, ID, and a phone for emergencies. ___To Limo or not to Limo? - If you are planning to rent a limo then it is time to make reservations. You may be required to make a deposit. Be make sure to get a receipt and note person that took your reservation. If cost seems to be out of your budget, go together with several other people to minimize cost. ___Restaurant Reservations - Decide where you will be dining and make your reservations early.
| | How Well Do You Know Your Child?Written by Marie Magdala Roker
Do you think you really know your child? I don't mean know what he/she likes and doesn't like, but to know him/her well enough to understand his/her challenges, to appreciate his/her strengths and weaknesses and to help him/her develop his talents. Knowing your children can help increase their chance for success in future and improve your relationship. As parents, we are constantly looking for ways to improve out relationship with our children, discipline our children and provide proper guidance. How many of us take time to get to really know our child? Some of us believe that our children are extensions of us and don't have their own thoughts, dreams and goals. When was last time you sat down with your child to find out what they are thinking? The answers may surprise you. Children, especially during puberty, start to discover and develop their identity. They go through an emotional and psychological identity crisis and question and challenge their parents. At this point, children start to crave support and direction from their parents, but are not always compelled to ask for it. But how can you help your child, if you do not know their needs? Simple, ask them! You are not a mind reader and your child probably will not voluntarily share his/her personal information with you. When you start to offer unsolicited advice, they feel that you are being intrusive or nosy and get defensive. There are two simple steps to getting to know your child. The first step is to listen more and speak less. Let your child direct conversation and when they ask for your advice, offer it without being judgmental or critical. Lecturing and berating your child for poor judgment or unhealthy decisions will not help you to understand him/her more because you will not be getting to core reason for behavior. If you do not have proper information, how can you give your child support that he/she needs? By listening, you will be able to help your child understand how their choices and decisions affect their lives and direct them to making healthier and more responsible decisions. By being an active listener, you learn to acknowledge what your child is feeling and give your child information and advice that he/she needs.
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