~I'VE SOLD MY SOUL TO MY JOB!~

Written by Debi Bogard


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1. DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. Set your goals, envision your target and do something every day to obtain it. 2. UPDATE YOUR CAREER MARKETING DOCUMENTS. Your resume cannot be outdated or average - it must be outstanding! You have a recruiter's not-so-undivided attention for only 30 seconds in which your resume is either SINGLED OUT or TOSSED OUT.

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IT'S UP TO YOU!

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The Fable of the Elephant and the Woman Who Wasn't Blind

Written by Susan Dunn, MA Clinical Psychology, The EQ Coach


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It may learn it can pick up tasty treats with its trunk, and so it remembers to do this.

Or someone may capture it when it’s little, and put a chain around its leg attached to a stake that’s too strong for it to pull away from. It will try with all its might, and only succeed in tearing its leg which causes more pain, so eventually, being smart, being able to learn, it gives up.

What it has learned is hopelessness and helplessness. This means forrepparttar rest of its life, even when it weigh 6 tons and should be nearly impossible to contain, it will allow that chain on its leg to rule its life.

So there stands that 6-ton animal, tethered by nothing really, except its fearful memories.

Has this happened to you? (Think about it.)

©Susan Dunn, MA Clinical Psychology, The EQ Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Offering individual, executive and team coaching in emotional intelligence, leadership, communication, resilience and success. The EQ Foundation Course©, The EQ Learning Lab™, The EQ eBook Library – http://www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html . Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine.


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