You can either reframe context or content. When you reframe context, you find a particular context in which belief or behavior is more useful. You want to ask yourself "When/Where would this behavior/belief be useful?" When you reframe content or meaning, you change meaning of particular belief or behavior. You may want to ask yourself questions like, "What else could this mean?" "What is positive value of this behavior?" "How else could I describe this behavior?"

Examples of Context Reframes:

=> Instead of procrastinating getting started cold calling, procrastinate stopping cold calling.

=> Instead of eating to fill emotional needs, eat only when you feel really hungry.

=> Instead of relieving stress by smoking, relieve stress by going for a jog or spend an hour in Jacuzzi.

Examples of Content Reframes:

=> Don't sell people on benefits of your products, help them buy benefits your product offers.

=> Working hard doesn't lead to success, working smart does.

=> Strong leaders tell their troops to advance backwards, never retreat.

Start playing with frames you have about your successes and failures and begin to make them more useful. Remember to keep lessons you originally learned, but what else could all your previous frames mean. How much more can you learn now!

If effect did not follow cause your world, universe, and vast cosmos would be chaotic. The Great Spirit, God Deity Supreme Power would not be summit of love, wisdom and perfection of all that exists. A divine justice rules universe, with religious and spiritual significance. If you could change effect of some wrong doing it would break divine justice rules, in turn this would show that religious and spiritual law was imperfect in its operation and unjust because you could change its pattern. Nature must follow its ordained path, oblivious to man’s desire. It has tasks to perform, and will continue to do so. When man works in harmony, they reap results. Nature can be profligate in abundance; it has to offer to those who work in harmony with it. Whatever good you do, you are better for it. Whatever selfishness you practice, you are worse for it.

You cannot cheat natural law. You cannot say you are sorry for what you have done and automatically obliterate all effect of causes you set in motion.