3. Who?

In order for you to achieve certain things, you need to take on certain qualities. Who do you need to become as you strive to achieve your goal? Do you need to become more confident, committed and action oriented? Do you need to become a risk taker? Do you need to be more assertive? Identify qualities that you need to adopt in order for you to achieve your goals.

Max Dupree rightly said that “We cannot become what we need to be, by remaining what we are.”

4. How?

How are you going to manage your life as a project? How are you planning on achieving your objectives? Do you have a step by step plan? Certain tools need to be in place to help you tie together all pieces of project you plan to accomplish.

Having a plan is very important because it is road map to your goal. It will help you know what information you require to make each phase of your life a success. For example, if you want to lose weight, how do you plan to lose it? If plan A fails what is plan B?

5. When?

Every goal you set must have a deadline and any plan you have, must cease from just being a plan, turn into action and produce tangible results. When are you going to be done with at least one specific goal you have set out to accomplish? When are you going to wrap up project?

Your life is a do –it-yourself project. If you want your plans to materialize, start taking action tod

Perhaps you are invisible person who wants to be visible, to be recognized, to be someone in society, to move from nowhere to somewhere and you are frustrated because nothing seems to be happening.

You constantly wonder why things seem to be working for others and not for you? You feel like a victim of circumstances and you just want to scream and tell people “ Hey! Stop! Look at me, consider me, value my contribution …I am IT! I am real deal! What is really going on?

Outwardly everything may seem perfect but inwardly battle to stay intact rages on!

If you identify with any of these situations, then perhaps you need to take some time to find yourself.

How to find yourself.

To find yourself you need to ask yourself three questions.

1. Who are you?

Consider your values, what do you stand for; think about this question from truth that you know deep down inside. Do not be influenced by what you or others think that you should be. Give yourself honest feedback.

2. What do you want?

Consider your dreams, your desires, and your expectations. And write each one down. Ponder about each one carefully. Think about why “ what you want” is really important to you.

3. Where are you now and how will you get where you want to be?

Consider where you are right now, how you feel about where you are and think about how to get yourself out of that situation and into place where you want to be. You have to change your perspective and be creative to get an answer to this question.

Finally, get in touch with your true self and begin to lead a fulfilling life!

You know answer, it lies within you.