But how can we bring our two minds into harmony?

It is just a matter of reprogramming to get rid of bugs.

One of earliest ideas was to repeat several times each day, 'Every day, in every way, I am getting better and better.' You feel stupid, I admit, but it works.

Another idea is to relax in a quiet room (I lay on my bed) and imagine that you are very slowly descending in an elevator. Imagine that each floor brings you closer to your subconscious. See each floor clearly in your mind's eye.

When you get to bottom (mine is always five floors down), mentally walk through silent corridors until you come to a room filled with a giant movie screen. Sit down and see a movie begin. This movie is one you direct. It is your conscious mind telling your subconscious what it want to achieve.

If you want to run a successful web site, see yourself doing just that. Feel how it feels, see how you achieved it, feel your success and revel in it. Make this best movie you have ever seen.

When you have done, mentally walk back to elevator and take ride back up to top of your mind.

Do this every day and your subconscious will soon begin working diligently to make it happen. Your doubts will melt away and your enthusiasm will be multiplied.

If this sounds like mumbo-jumbo to you, please suspend your judgment and give it a try.- it costs nothing and cannot hurt you. In fact, if nothing else, you end up feeling wonderfully relaxed.

This method is one simple way to begin to reprogram power of subconscious to work for you rather that against you. It works by allowing you to channel your conscious life in a more focused way without being dissipated by self-doubt.

After a very short time you will truly be saying, 'Every day, in every way I am getting better and better.'

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