A second consideration is simply that there are major differences in how men are in relationships compared to how women are. Women generally don’t understand men because men don’t act like women and similarly, men don’t understand women because they don’t act like men. And since a woman has never been a man and a man has never been a woman, how does each learn about these important differences? John Gray researched and wrote about these issues in his book, Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus. But I would say that majority of people in relationships don’t take time to learn about these gender differences. It is easier to point a finger and blame other person for his or her “irrational” behavior.

As mentioned earlier, a third area of growth is learning how to manage conflict. There are time proven methods for resolving conflict that we don’t learn in school or from a book. There are ways to actually hear each other in relationships. By placing relationship FIRST in importance, these methods can be implemented by couples to greatly improve their satisfaction.

There is so much to learn about satisfying relationships that your parents never showed you. Please don’t become one of statistics of divorce or perhaps worse, stay in a miserable relationship to honor your marriage vows while having so many regrets about your life as time ticks away.

Take charge and take control of your life. Learn some new ways to improve relationship you are already in or to prepare yourself for being a better, improved partner for next person in your life. Contact Kim at 708-957-6047 or email at Kim@TheRelationshipCenter.biz about relationship coaching or take one many Teleclasses scheduled on Events Calendar at www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz. Don’t wait until it is too late.

Until, day that I was watching five o’clock news; news lady said a local doctor pleaded guilty to child molestation charges; and guess what? You know it, his picture was on news and now I just stood alone frozen in my living room unable to pick my jaw back up. Once I recovered from state of shock; I was thankful that my girls were never left alone with him. Not even for a second. But, I could not help but, think that my intuition was right and that I did not listen to it. I felt as if it crept back up on me and was now saying: I told you so!

Now, I understand that even if some feelings, thoughts etc, cannot be rationalize there may be a reason for it and even If I decide to do opposite; I will be sure to pave way with caution.

I suggest that you don’t wait for a life turning event to listen to your intuition I was lucky it was not one of my daughters. But, I do regret placing them next to some one that my inner self did not approve of.

Intuition is there to help you,

Kenia Morales

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