People are by definition marginalized though they possess equal capacity as a referencegroup. They are not allowed to access main social arenas through sofisticated and embedded systems and subsytems producing "dropouts". The influence and power to define codes , rules and conditions is of course all members privelige.

That´s why we choose strategy to ignore conventional roadmaps in favour of become aware of unexpected paths and turn hidden space visible. This approach generates far more opportunities waiting in unknown terrain and pardoxal directories. Children got that magic finding an exiting position under a table. Hidden and forgotten space! The Crocodile lives most of time, waiting for an opportunity to strike from its hidden space.

Lots of new ways to discover, new knowledge to share and more experience to add. The proper tools will be invented and produced as a result of evaluation and reflection processes and methaprocesses that follow systematic interventions and actions as creating values.

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1.Remove yourself from further sources of temptation and let it be known that you have. Don’t go where you used to go, and don’t hang out with people you used to hang out with, and avoid people who do what you want to avoid doing. 2.Be particularly careful of your behavior when with person you’ve harmed. For instance, if you have an affair on your husband, when in social situations, patently ignore members of opposite sex and stick by side of your husband. 3.If embarrassment has been caused and/or temptation remains, be willing to relocate – get another job if you had an affair at office, or move to another neighborhood if it was with a neighbor. 4.Over-communicate. If you used to sneak off to drink or gamble saying you were working late, or meeting a friend, announce where you’re going, with whom you’re going, and when you’ll be back. Give a phone number and an invitation for them to check in with you (i.e., check up on your). Better yet, YOU call. (Don’t whine. This is a consequence of your actions you must deal with if you want to regain trust.) 5.Be meticulous about keeping your word. If you say you’ll meet him at 5:00 p.m., be there at 5 till. If you say you’ll pick up milk at store on way home, do it. 6.Make your life an open book. Display, without vindictiveness, things you used to hide – cell phone bill, address book, credit card statements, contents of your travel suitcase, who’s on other end of phoneline, and what’s in cup you’re drinking out of.

You can grasp picture better if you consider unfortunate analogy of a dog who’s been beaten. If you adopt such a dog, you’ll find every time you approach them, they will cower or run away. You will have to approach slowly, with your hands exposed, palms up, so that slowly dog will learn that you don’t harbor weapons, and don’t use your hands to hit. This requires discipline on your part, and consideration for other, but is part of restitution. In other words, you make it very clear, overly-clear, that you don’t intend to do what you did again.

In sum, if someone has granted you forgiveness for something you’ve said or done, and you want to continue relationship, you will have to rebuild trust. Damaged relationships can be repaired with forgiveness, time, changed behavior (and words are a behavior), and restored trust.