Your effectiveness in learning and using auto-suggestion will depend largely on your determination to concentrate on your desire with emotion and strong feelings.

Well, how do I get there?

The most direct route to sub-conscious is through your emotions. The most effective route to your emotions is to visualize what you desire.

The visualizing will help emotions to feel reality and truth of what you're are self-suggesting. Without conscious or unconscious auto-suggestion, then you are ignoring (again) great powers of your mind and cheating yourself from life's most wonderful blessings.

Someone said to me, "I can't go around saying I have something I don't have." Why not? You do all time. Every time you sneeze, you say, I coming down with a cold. And, then you get one. Every time something goes wrong at work, you say, that's just my rotten luck. And, then bottom falls out.

You ever heard this? "Next time we buy those tickets to go on a vacation, I guarantee you those kids will get sick and we'll lose money for those plane tickets". And, then it happened and you said, "See there I told you so". And, you go around patting yourself on back so everyone could see how smart you are just like you prophesied it. Duh, need I say again ?

You mean I have to lie?

Remember, sub-conscious does not know difference between truth and lie. It just uses it's unknown and unexplainable powers to bring to pass "words" that come out of your mouth. That's what it was made to do. That's all it knows how to do.

Start saying this out loud everyday; multiple times everyday; "Day by Day, in every way, I'm getting Prettier and Prettier!" or, richer and richer; or, whatever. Now I hope I don't have to tell you this, but, don't go around saying I'm getting Dummer and Dummer. (again) don't laugh, some people do. I like to say I'm getting prettier and prettier. Lol he he! Yeah, that's right.

After you've said that several hundred times, you will begin waking up saying it. You'll be walking down street and it will just pop in your mind. That is auto-suggestion. When it comes up from somewhere down inside you, and you didn't even have to think it up, then you are learning powers of your mind.

An Example: True Story!

It was 3 am in intensive care room of a local hospital. Two nurses were keeping close watch over their patient whom had had a massive heart attack. The nurses noticed his vital signs had stopped. They were frantic and one said to other, "Do you have a pulse"? She said no.

The patient, being a student of auto-suggestion and powers of his mind, heard everything they were saying but he couldn't communicate with them and tell them he was ok.

He then remembered an affirmation he was taught. "You can do anything, if you believe you can". He forced his eyelids open and nurses then knew he was ok.

He recovered and here is interesting part. He later testified he felt it was so amusing at how frantic nurses were. You see, his mind could not be influenced by their fearful suggestions. He had trained his brain to only be influenced by what he fed it. Go Thou and do likewise!

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When a child is between ages of 5 to 10, it is these years that are most crucial years when he will require security and support from his parents to maintain a healthy development and growth in terms of his self- confidence and self-esteem. In a situation where family is dealing with upheaval of a divorce, each parent will try to push that child towards taking their side. This plays a huge part of all of these issues. It is intervention of our Human EGO.

Where is our personal responsibility?

When we talk to parents as individuals from both ends, in many instances immediate response is to excuse themselves by placing blame upon effect of circumstances in which they grew up. Is it time to heal that part of your life before evolving a new soul in process? Well think about it!

We all had in one way or another good and bad experiences when growing up. This is unfortunate for any soul to have to go through a bad time when they were growing up. But by being responsible for ourselves, there is a requirement where we must allow for healing scars from past and moving on in a healthy and productive way. You might make excuse that this is easier said than done, but what effort have you really applied into fulfilling this task.

We cannot change any of events that happened in past, this is why we call it our ‘past’. However, we can accept experiences for what they were and make allowance for ourselves to heal. We acquired those experiences or lessons in first instance before coming to this life. It is not fair for a new born to suffer as a result of our mistakes that we refused to handle in first place because we do not want to let go of that past. So is there any excuse for us blaming our actions in correlation to events of our past? I don’t believe this is so!

Be open and to experience life and learn to take our responsibility for ourselves and for those people who are close to us more seriously. We are not only passing time and years when we are here on this plane to achieve nothing. Let’s start upbringing a new and healthy generation, without disregarding your own growth. Learn to grow up and move forward in your life!

I chose to tackle a range of different subjects here in this article because there is a great deal to be said on these different subjects. Hopefully we will tackle each one of them in this healing section.

When it comes to Anorexia and Bulimia hopefully other people who have passed through those experiences in their life will have ability to help our younger generation. Reading these articles will provide an opportunity to learn how to deal with those situations by sharing their experience with us, and, in process allow healing process to take effect in their life too.

Joseph Ghabi http://www.freespiritcentre.info

At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph is natural medium presently teaching meditation, numerology and healing. Joseph started the ‘Free Spirit Centre’ website at http://www.freespiritcentre.info. A community web based centre dedicated to personal growth, soul growth, eating disorders, relationships, healing and human issues.