Action step #2: Get yourself BIG reasons. You have to create reasons that are an 11 on a scale of 10. When you look at those reasons, they are an 11. They really turn your crank and light you up. The reasons are so inspiring they keep you inspired every day. So ask yourself why? Why do you want this?

Action step #3 – Focus on what you want. Visualize this, pray for this, ask for this, meditate on this, or whatever it is you do. Put feeling into it, write reasons down, put it somewhere you will see it every day. Look at it every day. Get inspired by it. They key to getting what you want is focusing on what you want. Putting feeling and emotion into your focus can help tremendously. Emotions and feelings are a driving force or an energy to help create manifestation you want. Focus on what you want.

The greatest thing you can do is to create these reasons for anything in life you want that you are not now getting. If reasons are big enough, they will be bigger than anything that might have stopped you in past. A big enough reason makes “how to” easy.

What is your "why"?

Most fears are illusions we create in our own head, based on past conditioning and not based on what is possible. As children we are natural born risk takers and for most part we are fearless. The meaning we give an experience when we do not achieve result we want, determines how we "see" and "feel" when a similar opportunity presents itself.

If we experience rejection more times than we care to, we tend to mentally label experience a negative one. Over time, this becomes our belief, and our beliefs, as you already know, becomes our reality.

What would happen if we changed meaning of an experience we didn't like?

What if we learned to label experience a learning one or an interesting one? Do you think your tolerance level would increase for trying again?

I have learned that people who really succeed in various areas of life often frame their experiences differently than those who quickly label experience as a negative one.

When we feel fear, we are playing a mental track that is not conducive to growth. All growth comes from stretching oneself past comfort zone that limits us. Risk is a necessary part of reward. You cannot have one without other.

Let me suggest that you start to label your experiences in a way that serves you rather than limits you.

We have very few limits except ones that we set on ourselves. And those are mostly out of fear from past. Do not let your past control your present thinking. Step out and grow. Step out of your comfort zone and be free again!

And remember...

Create a Great Day!