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What you can do to prevent this misunderstanding is to rephrase your question a bit. Do not use a yes-no question. You can ask, "What if we...", or "Is it possible for us to...", instead.
In business, if you ask something which is not possible to your partner, they will say "Yes", but won't do it anyway. They will probably even do it and suffer
loss... Do I have to tell that you won't see this partner again?
One more example, there was a survey conducted by a Western academic researcher in China. The question was -- "Do you go to a .... church emple?", with Buddhist, Catholic, Taoist, etc. as choices. The result showed error because when they added
number of Christians, Buddhists, Confucians, and Taoists together,
total number was three times larger than
sample size! This was because Chinese are spiritual, and ones who visit churches emples will visit more than one of them,
researcher's assumption that a Buddhist will go only to Buddhist temple, etc. could not apply here. If
question had just asked, "What is your religion?",
result would be more accurate.
(Moreover... if we said we didn't go to such a good place, it'd make us look bad. So sometimes we lie. Problem with that? ;-)

Nucha Aquino is a Work-At-Home-Mom who loves to travel. She currently teaches International Business and Management in a Graduate School in Laguna, Philippines. When the baby is asleep and there is no class, she writes about her International experiences and publishes 2 ezines: Small-World Ezine at http://small-world.netfirms.com , and eLaguna's eBiz Tips at http://eLaguna.net/newsletter.htm