I think answer for me is simple: it’s my passion to grow and evolve. Being at my edge seems to provide this opportunity. I notice that discomfort and dissatisfaction are impetus for daring to risk new territory. It seems that our shoes have to get a little bit too tight before we are ready to get bigger ones. As Carl Jung stated, “ Find out what a person fears most and that is where he will develop next”.

Where’s your edge? What are you at brink of and wanting to press forward with in your life? What dreams or passions are you denying because you want to stay safe in your comfort zone?

Here are some perspectives and suggestions to help negotiate edge.

1. Increase your self-awareness. Remind yourself if you are experiencing discomfort or dissatisfaction that you are at precipice of growth. This is good news. Often a young child will get grumpy and irritable just prior to mastering a new skill. Your increased awareness can help you tolerate this stage. Be compassionate with yourself.

2. Find your solid ground. Make sure you have one foot firmly planted and grounded in reality before you lift your other foot up to take a giant step. Where do you currently feel safe and confident? What aspects of your life can act as an anchor as you push into new horizons?

3. What is worst that can happen? Dare to take a look. Assess your risk honestly, have a plan, arrange for a back up or ample reserve to carry you through and minimize consequences.

4. Support, support, support. And did I say support? Set up structures and resources that will help you to feel sustained. Is it friends, a network of colleagues, a solid self-care system that will help you weather stress of growth?

5. Continue to reinforce and focus your strengths. What are gifts and talents you are seeking to share with world in your venture? Remind yourself and stay present to reason you want to grow or step out in first place.

Learning to welcome and live at your edge is an art form. It takes practice, trust and a willingness to embrace all parts of you.

As I find myself at my edge, in middle of this snowy, cold New England winter, I am energized. I know this opportunity to practice art of edge walking will propel me forward into next exciting opportunity of my life.

It’s YOUR life…imagine possibilities!

Helaine Iris is a Certified Life Coach, writer and teacher. She works with individuals, entrepreneurs, and professionals, who want to love their lives, thrive and evolve. Are you ready to take a step that could change your life? For a complimentary session visit her website http://www.pathofpurpose.com or call her 603-357-8546 or email her helaine@pathofpurpose.com

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