As a parent you must have leadership qualities of tolerance, motivation, humanity, good behavior, love and affection.

If leader is worst then followers will also be worst.

You should have leadership qualities. If a good follower is developed then he will also lead his followers same way you did and world can see, an another respectable leader and law abiding citizen.

Another important aspect is that you should find out your children's ability or their interest from their behavior.

Explore children's ability and interest from their activity, speech, clarification, when they are between age of 5 and 10.

You should ensure that their ability and interest should be only towards their welfare.

You should constantly explain to them and create circumstances for achieving their ability.

Leaders or personalities who have achieved good results similar to aim of your children should be repeatedly made known to them.

Means of visual remembrance like images and bio-graphy of well known personalities will yield good results in this regard.

Another important aspect you should concentrate is that children should be motivated for self-reliant for all their needs. Of course it will be very difficulty for them in initial stage of their age to become self-reliant for their needs.

They can be helped in initial stage for all their needs like eating, bathing, and dressing, placing things in a proper place. But you should not help them always. They should be trained properly so that they will be independent for all their needs in future.

Further you must explain your children to have their regular exercise.

Once they become interested in doing exercise they will know importance of keeping body well and they won't be addicted to any bad habits also.

You should motivate them to read epics of all religion. They convey good message for benefit of mankind in their own style.

No religion or epic encourages hatredness among peoples. The unique aim of all epics and religion in this world is aimed towards love, humanity, brotherhood, and good morale.

Good communication and pronunciation training to your children by you will be very useful for their better future. It is natural that children will find it very hard to communicate or pronunciation, in initial stage.

However you should train them for a better pronunciations and presentation so that they cannot face any awkward situation or feel inferiority complex among other children.

When children are born in this world they are like a small plant.

The plant can be seen as a big tree, giving fruits to more decades to present and future generation only if it is properly preserved. krishnan.c author

Krishnan.c,after serving 27 years of Govt.service,is writting articles mostly on motivational topics blended with his professional and personal experiences.

He has written many artilces on parenting,childen,health practices,etc.,

He is also conducting an emagazine "All for your success" at http://www.tncity.biz/afus.html

Like anybody else, you too may have big dreams and plans. I don't know what plans you have, so let me synchronize your dream with mine. I don't have desire to be surrounded my millions or billions of people. I need only one person, any gender, any age or staying anywhere in world. I have many plans to complete, many dreams to fulfill.

During process of achieving I may fail or fall many times. At that time, in midst of journey, many people will leave me, my friends, my relatives and perhaps my parents as well. Because they say in Hindi " Waqt Insan per aiesa bhi kabhi aata hai, rah mein chod kar saya bhi chala jata hai." (Sometimes, when time is not good, even your shadow too decides to leave you.) Sometimes I may fall so hard or disappointment will be so deep that I may give up or change my plans. At that time, this person (unknown till now) will come to me and say, " You can do it, and you have to do it. I have confidence in your capabilities and faith in your dreams".

You too may need such person in your life, right?

Looking forward to your comments and feedback !!!

Sanjeev Sharma Puna-India (Mobile: +91-9890788259)

E-mail: ss_himachali@yahoo.com; s070976@yahoo.co.in

You can visit my blog at http://sanjeevhimachali.blogspot.com/

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"When life's largest pressures leave you struck dumb,

Just search for an answer; solution will come

When a tragedy occurs leaving you feeling numb,

Just wait for your health; strength will come

When everyone relies on you and there is no way you can see,

Trust your mind to think with time; patience is key.

When you have made it where others always flee,

Just wait to gather courage; soon you'll be where you want to be.

When it is nearing end and you're in need,

Muster up your courage; endurance will lead.

IT WILL COME"

I am Sanjeev Sharma, HR-Manager in a BPO Company in India. I am also a writer;Motivational Speaker. You can visit my blog at http://sanjeevhimachali.blogspot.com/

You can also read my article at http://www.europeancoachinginstitute.org/