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I was shocked, hurt and angry all at
same time. I turned to my mother and said, "I hate him." She looked at me with her beautiful blue eyes and said, "That's not nice. He was just doing his job. Can you imagine how hard it must be for him to have to tell his patients bad news like that?"
Oh, Mom, you certainly were something.
In
years since I lost my mom, things have changed in many ways. There are sorrows and bittersweet longings, but her gentle lessons continue to touch my life and guide me.
Mom would be proud to know that my husband John and I recently published our first children's book. Although we originally set out to write an entertaining story about a boy with school troubles, I soon discovered that John was
victim of a school bully. He had buried
hurt and humiliation deep inside, but as we stepped further into
writing process,
impact of his experience was evident.
My mother's lessons taught me to listen closely to
soft whispers of life. This perspective helped me to realize that a message emerged from our collaboration, beyond
pages of our book. This knowledge changed
direction of our lives.
Our children's book became
basis for an anti-bullying program. The program, filled with stories, songs and practical advice, teaches children about
consequences of bullying and helps to provide a safe and healthy learning environment.
Today, as John and I speak at schools and community events, I pray that our pieces of time sprinkled with pivotal moments serve to help
children. Because now, I understand.
AWARENESS
Necks crane as innocent eyes follow my every move Silent, enthralled children, A captive audience In
wake of their hushed response, I hear
echo of my own words. Anticipation looms Awaiting an answer A solution, an explanation, I cannot provide. I have let them down For I can only share my story, Not repair
social injustice that has befallen them. They are victims, As once was I With only my experience to offer, I silently pray to ease their anguish, Whilst knowing I cannot. Gatto/De Angelis ©2004

Patricia Gatto and John De Angelis are the authors of MILTON'S DILEMMA, the tale of a lonely boy’s magical journey to friendship and self-acceptance. As advocates for literacy and children's rights, the authors speak at schools and community events to foster awareness and provide children with a safe and healthy learning environment. For more information, please visit Joyful Productions at http://www.joyfulproductions.com