When Bad Things HappenWritten by Jerry Lopper
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Maybe this isn’t about your story. Maybe you are merely a supporting character in someone else’s story. What gifts can you bring to situation? Be aware of who you are being in response to what is happening. Are you fearful, angry, vengeful, or depressed? Are you distant, supportive, loving, or helpful? Ask yourself. "Is this who I am?" and "Is this who I choose to be?" Maybe you do choose to be angry, fearful, or depressed for a time, but keep it short. Consciously realize you are being as you are, and when you’ve had enough of that state then choose another state of being that is more representative of your highest self. Recognize that Universe brings you circumstances you consciously or subconsciously call forth. Do these circumstances allow you to continue story that describes who you think you are? Or do these circumstances give you a frame of reference so you can experience bravery, joy, insight, or love? There are no coincidences--no bad luck. This moment is just blink of an eye in infinite life of our souls. Live within present moment while simultaneously watching it from a distance as an impartial observer. Experience present moment and grow with it by conscious choice.

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| | Romance: The Internal Process Written by Justin Luyt
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So where do I start with this shift in perception? True Intimacy is of mind, not of body. Having sex with a person does not create intimacy in any way. You can sleep with someone, or even live with someone, for years and not experience intimacy. Authentic self-expression is key to true intimacy in romantic relationships, as well as in all other relationships. Getting to a place where you can authentically share your feelings and experiences is where I suggest you begin in order to create true intimacy with someone. At Romance Coaching, you partake in Transformational Education that strengthens your beliefs about yourself. You might find that you restrict yourself and not take a leap to meet new people, or you simply find you are in a relationship but lack intimacy. Think what you believe about yourself. Do you believe you deserve a long lasting Romantic Relationship? What are your thoughts about Intimacy, Affection, Love, Sex?… Really think… Our Transformational Education has one aim – …to develop skill of Romance. Loving-kindness, Justin Luyt Justin Luyt has been consulting and training individuals and corporations for over 10 years. Over time, Justin has become very aware of needless limitations people lay upon themselves and he has developed cutting edge tools, allowing them to be guided through creation of a new life. He has found a perception on romantic relationships that makes journey very easy and has chosen to educate people in regaining their romantic power as well as creating impeccable relationships. Conatc him on justin@Romancecoaching.biz and 1.877.391.8624. Remember to see his website on http://www.RomanceCoaching.biz

Justin Luyt has been consulting and training individuals and corporations for over 10 years. He has developed cutting edge tools, allowing people to be guided through the creation of a new life. Contact him on justin@Romancecoaching.biz and 1.877.391.8624. Remember to see his website on http://www.RomanceCoaching.biz
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