Whatever You Fear Has Already Happened

Written by Susan Dunn, MA Clinical Psychology, The EQ Coach

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Childhood lasts a long time forrepparttar elephant, as it does forrepparttar 126218 human. They have much to learn about survival and their culture. They’re dependant on their mothers, emotionally and physically, for 3-5 years, and often aren’t weaned til their 10th year. Why this long dependency? Because they aren’t born knowing how to survive, they must learn it. Similar to humans and apes, much ofrepparttar 126219 elephant’s brain development takes place after birth. This allows for (and demands) learned behaviors, not just instinctual behavior.

Like humans,repparttar 126220 elephant is born with minimal “innate” knowledge. For instance, it’s only through watching adultsrepparttar 126221 elephant learns its trunk can be used to pick things up, or scratch or drink with.

Now what ifrepparttar 126222 young elephant calf, with it’s new brain (“impressionable”) is captured and its leg chained to a stake inrepparttar 126223 ground that he can’t pull away from no matter how hard he pulls? And atrepparttar 126224 same time, he’s scared. Scientists are discovering that fear andrepparttar 126225 memory get stored together inrepparttar 126226 cells for a long time. Once coupled with fearful events, they continue to fire in unison long afterrepparttar 126227 original event is over. At an early age,repparttar 126228 elephant has learned “helplessness,” that when that thing’s on its leg, no matter what it does, it can’t get away, so eventually it gives up and quits trying. And there stands that 7-ton animal tethered by nothing, really, except its fearful memories.

Has this happened to you? (Think about it.) Could coaching help? (Think about it.)

Susan Dunn, MA Psychology, The EQ Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Individual and business coaching, distance learning courses, the EQ eBook Library - http://www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html . Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE eZine.

Mind, Body, Spirit Healing vs. Traditional Psychotherapy/Psychoanalysis

Written by Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, MSW, CCH, CRT

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The higher self has somewhat of a higher perspective of our human "doings" here. This can be likened to a view of our life path and actions from a helicopter above us. This higher self is akin to our "soul self." I like to call itrepparttar "all seeing self"...constantly moving us around on this chessboard of life. This soul self or "higher self" knows just exactly what we need to do at any moment and strives to tell us through such things as dreams and instincts. Connecting with this "higher self" consciously is very empowering. Working with this metaphysical principle is often called "transpersonal" because it transports us to a direct contact withrepparttar 126217 highest part of ourselves. Consciously connectingrepparttar 126218 higher self,repparttar 126219 subconscious mind, andrepparttar 126220 conscious mind allows us to have a balanced and complete metaphysical healing. (The subconscious mind isrepparttar 126221 inductive computer that cannot deduct, but merely remembers all perceptions we have ever had, from any lifetime.) Metaphysical and Mind, Body, Spirit Healing In metaphysical healing,repparttar 126222 Facilitator assistsrepparttar 126223 person to connect withrepparttar 126224 three major parts of themselves—mind, body, spirit, and to go back torepparttar 126225 inner child, or "child ofrepparttar 126226 inner light." All things came from light, so internally we are all light, no matter what camouflage (depression, anxiety, panic attacks, anger, shame, guilt, sadness, eating disorders, substance abuse, etc.) we have adopted to keep our "inner child" safe. We ourselves often do not know any of this consciously, but when you learn it, and consciously give this "trilogy" our empowerment to act in our lives, amazing healing occurs. This is true spiritual healing. We have many bodies that all empathize and work to help one another. The physical isrepparttar 126227 lowest or most "base" of these bodies, so that when these different bodies have problems that hurt us, they eventually show up in this body. Since allrepparttar 126228 bodies help each other by drawing attention to some special part of us, we cannot avoid dealing with a problem. The soul directsrepparttar 126229 attention there by runningrepparttar 126230 "most powerful" emotional experience over and over again - at least vibrationally - so that we will eventually "get it" and look forrepparttar 126231 original cause...In thisrepparttar 126232 soul reclaiming technique of looking forrepparttar 126233 damaged "inner child" becomes very important. This is because when we are hurt too badly we sort of "splinter off" or "cocoon" intorepparttar 126234 child we are at that moment ofrepparttar 126235 most hurt and dis-empowered self. The person we are just continues on doingrepparttar 126236 best we can to grow and develop. When we become strong enough,repparttar 126237 soul urge to become "whole " again becomes empowered, seeks outrepparttar 126238 means by which we can "reclaim" this "inner child," who seeks to help us become whole again. Metaphysical healing is a very simple process, though its explanation is lengthy. We consciously know of this child part of us and it's pain inside. Unfortunately, we are seldom givenrepparttar 126239 tools with which to reclaim this part of us and unite this inner child withrepparttar 126240 person we have become now... This transpersonal healing is very complete, much easier and more efficient than you can believe, and wonderfully fulfilling. This isrepparttar 126241 original abandonment: when we separate off from ourselves because we simply are seeking to learn and grow andrepparttar 126242 lesson seems way too hard, we become "segmented off," less powerful, and believe we have to be victims. We are all very powerful, incredible "beings of Light," and it is time we took control of that loving power and help each other heal and recognizerepparttar 126243 beauty of all our "inner child self;" help them become reclaimed and we, therefore, become whole, healed, beautiful beings with a higher perspective of our true spiritual wholeness. Only then, can we accomplish what we have come here to do and recognize our soul's real purpose for being here at this time. The benefits of healing are all encompassing. In working with people for 23 years, I have learned, no matter how urgent or grim a person's predicament seems to be, I know without doubt if they are WILLING to dorepparttar 126244 mental work of going within to release old beliefs, feelings, thought patterns and forgiving, anything can be healed. The belief that some issues or conditions are ‘incurable' whether it is emotions or physical illness, which is so frightening to so many people, only means thatrepparttar 126245 particular issue or condition cannot be cured by ‘outer' methods and thatrepparttar 126246 person needs to GO WITHIN to effectrepparttar 126247 healing. Whetherrepparttar 126248 issue is anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame, or humiliation there is a negative thought pattern that produces them—thus these consistent thinking patterns create our experiences. A condition can be as annoying as acne or as dreaded and frightening asrepparttar 126249 ‘C' word—Cancer. By changing our thought patterns, we can change our experience, thus healingrepparttar 126250 condition. The issue or condition came fromrepparttar 126251 inner traumarepparttar 126252 person experienced and can be healed—never to return again. ###

As a inspirational and spiritual leader, Dr. Neddermeyer empowers people to view life's challenges as an opportunity for Personal/Professional Growth and Spiritual Awakening.

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