What is Normal Sexuality in Marriage?

Written by Maggie Vlazny, MSW

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There are many possible reasons for a discrepancy in desire between partners. The first is biological. As I mentioned inrepparttar statistics above, more than twice as many women than men have problems with sexual desire. This is because afterrepparttar 122019 infatuation phase ofrepparttar 122020 relationship, when hormones are running rampant, things settle down to natural biological rhythms. And biologically speaking, whoever hasrepparttar 122021 most testosterone hasrepparttar 122022 most desire.

Hmmm…. I wonder which gender that is!

Other reasons relevant to both genders are performance anxiety, emotional pain inrepparttar 122023 relationship, coerced intimacy, sex used as a bartering tool, lack of time, lack of energy, and fear of intimacy to name a few. These can be helped with an understanding therapist.

What you should do: first get complete medical exams to rule out any type of disease or medication causingrepparttar 122024 problem.

What you can do: see a relationship expert or sex therapist who can help you experiencerepparttar 122025 pleasure and joy of intimate connection. You deserve no less.

Maggie Vlazny, MSW, LCSW copyright 2005 www.therapyct.com

Maggie is an Imago Relationship Therapist and RCI Singles Coach. Services offered by phone, online, or in person at her Fairfield County, CT office. For more information please seee www.therapyct.com or contact maggie@therapyct.com

Should I Spy? - Spying on Your Cheating Spouse is NOT Revenge

Written by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

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The soonerrepparttar two of you can face each other, without outside input or influence,repparttar 122018 better off you andrepparttar 122019 relationship will be.

There usually is no reason to share new found information about cheating husbands or cheating wives with family, friends, children orrepparttar 122020 spouse ofrepparttar 122021 other person. A concern about sexually transmitted diseases or health risks might be an exception. If it is important to share such information, do so without much fanfare or drama.

And of course, if you pursue legal action, any information obtained through spying is sometimes might be helpful to your attorney. Some “evidence” does carry weight in particular states or districts.

Dr. Huizenga, the "Infidelity Coach," hosts the free Website: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com , which helps couples deal with emotional infidelity and Extramarital affairs. If you think your spouse is cheating, visit today.

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