What do make of it all? The words of a high school Latin teacher, a country music song, humanity united in mourning and a Life Coach with a pretty good memory who seems to spend a bit of time crying.

When you put all pieces of puzzle together, what's picture you see?

Let me help you out by making it more personal.

Think about your spouse or ex-spouse with whom you had a fight recently.

Think about your teenage child who seems to be out of control.

Think about your estranged sibling with whom you're constantly at odds.

Think about your parent who offered you a "less than enjoyable" childhood.

Think about "slow-poke" driver who made you late for work other day.

Think about your co-worker who makes your work life overly difficult.

Think about terrorist bomber who strikes at heart of a nation and your very way of life.

What can you learn from any or all these people in your life? Have they shown up in your life to help you learn some new skill that would actually make your life better should you choose to accept learning.

What if they're all angels? Sent from Heaven to help guide you along in your journey through life. Or "making certain that we're doing our best to take time to help one another."

What if they're all simply God. Doing whatever it takes to re-unite a people divided by their own beliefs, boundaries and borders.

What if you're God as well? Not THE one and only God but a divine manifestation of such.

What if?

Would it make a difference when you wake up tomorrow morning?

It's Your Life! Make it Great.

5. Find Your Real Self Again. Are you internally motivated, or addicted to applause? Do you do things just because "other people" expect you to, or do you do them because you experience joy and peace when you do? Are you living up to your higher goals, or just getting through day? Is your life a true reflection of what you believe in? Stop trying to "be" who or what you think you ought to be, and instead be willing to accept both your talents and your weaknesses. Then take full responsibility for how they affect you and other people in your life.

6. Find Out What Your Really Want Out of Life. Sounds simple doesn't it. Everybody knows what they want out of life - or do they? Begin by thinking about time where you were (or are) feeling completely happy , content, comfortable - and time just seems to fly by. What are you doing?. Why types of skills and activities are going on? What resources are you using? Many times your talents and passions are so much a part of you that they just seem to go unnoticed. Living your life based on your "big goals" allows you to focus your energy and achieve much more. Otherwise you become a pinball in game of life.

The last step is to "Organize Your Life-Style to Support Life you Want. Once you've determined what you really want, how your Real Self plays a part in that, and let go of some idealistic goals, you are ready to restructure your life to be a more genuine expression of who you are. Allowing your Real Self to come through, and being comfortable in your own skin and own goals, makes life instantly easier, less stressful, and outright more fun!

Put Your Life On A Diet. You have so much information and opportunities coming at you 24 hours a day that it's easy to get caught up in "just stuff". Filter out what you don't want in your life. Would you hire a baby sitter to watch kids while you spend afternoon cleaning closet? Of course not. Carefully consider how you spend your time. Then, consciously - slowly, deliberately, one step at a time - set up your lifestyle to support way you want to spend your 24 hours. Surround yourself with attitudes, people, resources, and tools that will support life you want to live.