What does true Love mean to you?

Written by Ulla Sebastian


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The ability for an intimate relationship and an open and fair dispute formsrepparttar core for a co-operation within larger circles of people. The perspective onrepparttar 126094 social level expands fromrepparttar 126095 cell ofrepparttar 126096 pair relationship or family torepparttar 126097 social orders, which furthersrepparttar 126098 social well-being of all.

Through your abilities, your engagement or your love, you strengthen your neighbourhood, your job or organization, which you have joined. You work together on goals, which serverepparttar 126099 preservation of life andrepparttar 126100 common whole.

If true love means to you, thatrepparttar 126101 other should mother and protect you, you will on this level look for a community that might fulfil your needs. This even more so if a couple relationships has not satisfied you. The community becomes a mother substitute.

Instead of synergy you experiencerepparttar 126102 fight around attention, lack of respect for other community members, hidden power struggles, andrepparttar 126103 defence of privileges

When you reachrepparttar 126104 level of ethics or principles will you be able to differentiaterepparttar 126105 different levels with their options and challenges. This level enables you to distance yourself from yourself.

In practice this means, that you can observe, like a neutral observer how you have handledrepparttar 126106 options and challenges of love onrepparttar 126107 different levels of development, and what kind of thought forms and behaviour may even today hinder you to give and receive true love. As you are not completely identified with your own thoughts and responses anymore, you can choose how you may best overcomerepparttar 126108 obstacles.

If your partner for instance would like more room for himself, you will not simply react with fears of loss and trying to holdrepparttar 126109 partner, but you observerepparttar 126110 responses in you and you use your competence to develop another way of dealing with such situations. Withrepparttar 126111 consciousness ofrepparttar 126112 fifth level, you attainrepparttar 126113 freedom to direct your thoughts and behaviour in such a way that it leads to your chosen goals.

If you integrate all that you have learned on allrepparttar 126114 levels, you become an embodiment of true love that spreads to all people. This feeling of universal love isrepparttar 126115 all-encompassing feeling of compassion that Buddha spoke about. It isrepparttar 126116 wish to easerepparttar 126117 suffering of people helping them to understandrepparttar 126118 transitory nature of this world

Each level has its own qualities and challenges, and it will take time to come to terms with them.

For a more comprehensive description and a hands-on manual on how to move towards true love, check out her Ebook: Beyond Suffering.

Dr. Ulla Sebastian is a well-known author, trainer and psychotherapist. Her work spans a wide range of themes for professional, personal and spiritual growth and is the result of forty years of research and work with thousands of people from all over the world. For a more comprehensive description and a hands-on manual on how to move towards true love, go to http://www.visioform.com/uk/ebook-joy.htm


Covert Persuasion Techniques

Written by Alan Tutt


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For example, instead of saying "Do you think you might want to do this?", you're more likely to say "I'm really glad that you're going to be doing this." Instead of saying "Would you like to purchase this?", you're more likely to say "Would you like to pay cash, or would using your credit card be easier?" In both cases,repparttar idea thatrepparttar 126093 other person is going to follow through with your plans is assumed and included inrepparttar 126094 underlying meaning of what you said. In conversational hypnosis,repparttar 126095 underlying meaning carries most ofrepparttar 126096 suggestive power.

But this is onlyrepparttar 126097 tip ofrepparttar 126098 iceberg. There are many more concepts that work together to createrepparttar 126099 irresistible power of conversational hypnosis. I still have some studying to do before I can present a clear picture ofrepparttar 126100 subject, and when I do it will be posted directly torepparttar 126101 members' section ofrepparttar 126102 site. In fact, I can foresee writing a whole book on this subject, especially since there is so much good information that needs to be included to make sure that everyone getsrepparttar 126103 full benefit.

For non-members, or members who would rather not wait, here are a couple of resources that can teach you much about conversational hypnosis.

Offline:

Introducing NLP: Psychological Skills for understanding and influencing people - by Joseph O'Connor & John Seymour. This is a fairly clear explanation of NLP which gives you a solid foundation forrepparttar 126104 topic. Doesn't address how to userepparttar 126105 information to persuade others, but does talk about some ofrepparttar 126106 basic concepts.

Unlimited Selling Power - by Donald J. Moine & Kenneth L. Lloyd. This book covers how to use conversational hypnosis (at least in broad, general terms) in a sales situation. Doesn't get into using language patterns to embed suggestive commands, but is a very good resource for gettingrepparttar 126107 client thinking about your product in very positive terms.

Online:

Apply Hypnosis. http://www.keystopower.com/Link/ApplyHypnosis_03.php This website offers one ofrepparttar 126108 best books I've seen on language patterns, embedded commands, and using body language to reinforce your hypnotic message. Without a doubt,repparttar 126109 best resource available at this time. The author offers 2 options - a regular membership and a gold membership. Both membership will give you access torepparttar 126110 central book and some extra bonus books (mostly not worthrepparttar 126111 effort to read). The gold membership does give you 2 extra books that will help you putrepparttar 126112 basic information into practice. I highly recommend that you go forrepparttar 126113 gold membership if you are considering purchasing this resource.

Sexual Key. http://www.keystopower.com/Link/SexualKey_03.php Most men will at one time or another lament "What do women really want?!" This website givesrepparttar 126114 answer in a form that most men will readily respond to. For men, sex isrepparttar 126115 carrot onrepparttar 126116 stick that will lead them to learning how to relate to women onrepparttar 126117 emotional level, where women live. Yes, there are some conversational hypnosis techniques here, and some very good ideas I haven't seen elsewhere, butrepparttar 126118 focus is on giving women what they want and will respond to.

Alan Tutt is the creator of the Keys To Power Mastery System available at http://www.KeysToPower.com, and is currently working on a new book "Keys To Power Persuasion" that will be available at http://www.KeysToPowerPersuasion.com, where you can now get a free report reviewing the best persuasion courses available.


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