What People Are Really Interested In & How to Win Friends

Written by Peter Murphy


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At one point you wererepparttar answer to this persons prayers but now you serve no purpose in this persons life hencerepparttar 129661 anger and annoyance.

How can you use this insight?

1 Be alert torepparttar 129662 unspoken demandsrepparttar 129663 people in you life place on you. And understand that your relationships depend onrepparttar 129664 meeting of these underlying needs.

2 If you want to be free of a relationship that is limiting you then stop offeringrepparttar 129665 demanded input whether that be advice, time, acceptance or any other resource or support.

Be ready for fireworks though since your input will often be taken for granted until you withdraw it.

3 Realize that when you feel self conscious there is no need to be since most people are preoccupied being self conscious themselves!

And as far as they are concerned you are a means to an end. If John Friend phones you to go torepparttar 129666 cinema it is so he will enjoy your company and to avoid looking silly going there alone.

Of courserepparttar 129667 same applies to you and I. And it isrepparttar 129668 mutual filling of needs that underpins interactions, friendships and business relationships.

To sum up. We all want something from each other usually we are looking to fill emotional needs and this isrepparttar 129669 wayrepparttar 129670 world is. Once you accept this you can use this understanding to look for what people want from you and then meet their needs.

If you do this effectively you will never be short of friends and people keen to spend time with you.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm


7 Simple Tips For Cultivating Tons Of Confidence

Written by Peter Murphy


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5 Make a public declaration

Tell someone whose opinion you value that you will be confident at a particular event. Your desire to impress this person will cause you to do all that you can to be at your very best.

And when you demand more of yourself you will be amazed at what you can do. You will start finding solutions to problems that left you stuck and you will seek advice from people who can help you.

6 Preparation makes perfect

Have you ever watched a top sportsperson in action and wondered to yourself at how easy she makes it look? Or listened to your favorite music CD and felt inspired byrepparttar talent ofrepparttar 129659 singer?

Think. How did these superstars get torepparttar 129660 top? Practice, practice and more practice. I read an article about Pavarotti,repparttar 129661 opera singer, and he said he practices daily and he still learns something new about his voice each day!

When you spend more time honing your skills your confidence will soar because you will know with certainty that you can and will perform whenrepparttar 129662 curtain goes up.

7 Self comparison is key

Compare your progress in life with your previous results. Look torepparttar 129663 success of others to learn and not to measure your own success.

When you put your focus onrepparttar 129664 daily improvement of your own skills and abilities you can and will grow very quickly. And your confidence will surge.

Confidence without competence is a dangerous combination.

Make it easy for yourself and only engage in Self comparison when you are assessing your progress. By doing this you will make it easier to keep at it whenrepparttar 129665 going gets tough and your competence will grow day by day.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm


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