What Do You Prize Most in Mid-life?

Written by Craig Nathanson


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If you want to find your vocational passion, it has to begin with a question: What is most important to you? This may berepparttar most important question you will ever ask yourself. You need to look deep inside yourself to turn your vague longings into tangible goals, with real paths toward achieving them.

Once you answerrepparttar 107000 question and seerepparttar 107001 path thatrepparttar 107002 answers light for you, then it’s time to summonrepparttar 107003 courage to makerepparttar 107004 transition.

Matt Vande Voorde walked away from an executive position at a large bank to follow what he prized most in his life: magazine publishing. His dream was to one day publish a magazine targeted at helping people with disabilities userepparttar 107005 Internet. Today, Matt isrepparttar 107006 proud publisher of Accessible Content Magazine.

Jim Goebelbecker was tired of long hours selling products that he didn’t care about. He prized his family and nonprofit work. He also took a risk and never looked back. Today, Jim is an executive with a large nonprofit onrepparttar 107007 east coast. He works just 10 minutes away from his home. Five steps to discover and follow your passion

Making this level of change in your life isn’t an overnight process. Once you understand that a change is essential to makingrepparttar 107008 rest of your life matter, you can follow this simple process to move your dreams and desires into concrete actions.

Evaluate what you want. Askrepparttar 107009 big questions and answer them honestly. Why lie to yourself?

Envision your future. You need to visualize what you’re dreaming about. Then, develop a concrete understanding of what it will take to get there.

Tune out negative feedback. Everyone will try to talk you out of doing this. Listen to yourself.

Assess your risks. Take an inventory of your assets, obligations, and health. Then, makerepparttar 107010 necessary adjustments that will minimizerepparttar 107011 impact and risk of making a major life change.

Take small steps. You don’t have to quit tomorrow. You can start in small ways by doing research on your dream vocation, maybe taking a class. Or you can make small lifestyle changes to reduce your personal “burn rate.”

Inrepparttar 107012 end, you must give yourself permission to follow your heart. That’s what I did. So did Matt, Jim, and so many others. They now jump out of bed each morning looking forward to a day of vocational passion. You can have this feeling too. First, you must decide what’s really most important.

Craig Nathanson, The Vocational Coach, works with those over 40 to discover and do the work they love. He publishes the free monthly e-zine, “Vocational Passion in Mid-life.” Craig believes the world works a little better when we do the work we love. Visit his online community at http://www.thevocationalcoach.com where you can sign up for his monthly Tele-class.


Practice Speaking

Written by Jeff Altman, CPC, MSW


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And want are firm’s trying to find out about you? Leadership. Honesty. Trustworthiness.

You can practice with a friend or family member but they may not be much better than you. So how do you practice you presentation and get immediate feedback in order to improve your presentation and demonstrate these attributes?

Toastmasters (www.toastmasters.org) offers people an opportunity to practice how to speak throughout their program. Whether you answer extemporaneous questions offrepparttar cuff for 1-2 minutes in Table Topics (“It’s warm! It’s summer! People start to go torepparttar 106999 beach and spending time outdoors. Tell us about a time you had fun atrepparttar 107000 beach, Jeff.” Notice that you only find out when you will speak atrepparttar 107001 end when you hear your name) or by doing actual 4-6 minute speeches, Toastmasters offers concrete opportunities to get used to being “onrepparttar 107002 spot” as happens in an interview. It also gives you an opportunity to observe others and learn from them and fromrepparttar 107003 evaluations that are given.

There are Toastmasters clubs throughoutrepparttar 107004 world. To find one, you can go to http://www.toastmasters.org/find/.

Jeff Altman Concepts in Staffing jeffaltman@cisny.com

Jeff Altman, Managing Director with Concepts in Staffing, a New York search firm, has successfully assisted many corporations identify management leaders and staff in technology, accounting, finance, sales, marketing and other disciplines. For additional job hunting or hiring tips, go to http://www.newyorkmetrotechnologyjobs.com If you would like Jeff and his firm to assist you with hiring staff,send an email to him at jeffaltman@cisny.com.


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