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Exercise Three: Keep a Journal of Your Daily Successes
Keep a record of all
positive changes in thoughts you have about yourself. We all have triumphs and ‘failures’. You must record and remind yourself of
positive changes because our human nature will replay
negatives - sometimes blowing them out of proportion. It’s important to nurture and celebrate
small steps you make every day.
Exercise Four: Go Easy On Yourself – You Are Beautiful Work In Progress
Don’t listen to
criticism…not your own nor that of others! Remember you are
designer of your self-esteem, do not hand this over to other people. You are way too important to give this away. Protect your role as creator of your own self-image and do not, take on board negative criticisms. We all make mistakes, and mistakes can be used to help us learn. Do not criticise yourself for being human and making a mistake. The only last mistake in
one from which we never learn to grow.
Exercise Five: Forget About The Past
The only moment you can live is
current one. You can’t live in
future and you most certainly shouldn’t live in
past….the challenge is to take charge of our thinking so that we think in
same time zone in which we live!
For example we may be tempted to think about yesterday’s failures…”If only I hadn’t eaten second helpings”, “If only I didn’t reach for
chocolate cookies”. If we concentrate on
mistakes of yesterday this will our brains to replay our failures and reinforce them to us.
Yesterday is over, today is where you live….make sure that today you do NOT replay yesterday’s failures and make your resolve to change TODAY.
Exercise Six: Resolve to Change Today
Just as you shouldn’t live in
past, you can’t live in
future. You can only live or change today. The oldest cliché in
world is perhaps one of
greatest truisms of all…’tomorrow NEVER comes!’
There is no better time than now. So, no matter what excuses you may have to wait to take those healthy steps you know you should take, none of them are valid. Do it now, do it today. Resolve to make a different in your own life before you go to sleep tonight.
Exercise Seven: Write a Plan For your Life
This is your success plan. If you have not already done so it is time for you to create direction and purpose in your plans for yourself. Review your list of potentials and record next to each potential when you want to achieve this by.
Exercise Eight: Carry Affirmation Cards About Yourself
This is one of
fastest tools for your success. You are what you think. Strengthen your self-image every day by reviewing your thoughts. One of
easiest ways to do this is to carry affirmation cards in your wallet and review regularly. Affirmation cards are short bursts of words in business card that prompt and remind your self-image of your intentions. An example might be: I can achieve anything that I put my mind to. I will be satisfied with single helpings.
Try it, you have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Exercise Nine: Change Your Eating Habits
Now that you have set
groundwork in place, you are now ready to change your physical habits. You are ready to add a balanced nutritious diet, healthy eating habits, regular exercise and relaxation.
By using these nine exercises daily to change your thinking habits, you will be strengthening your self esteem and unlocking your internal power to make a change in your life. Before you can change lifelong eating habits, you must first change life long thinking habits. We are what we think. We can’t be something other than what we believe we can be!
So, do yourself a favour, liberate your self-image and then, see how much more effective your healthy living plan becomes!

Kim Beardsmore, B.Sc, MBA is a successful weight loss consultant. To see what you can do today to take control of your weight, visit her website at http://leanmachine.org/?refid=selfesteem-12867