Then there is person who decides to go to acting school and learn art of acting and makes his way by small steps to stardom. Maybe this guy will never make it. But, what are probabilities of first guy?

The second guy is making plans in a calculated manner and does not look for his help coming by just happening to be in right place at right time.

An Uphill Battle!

You should understand that depending on big break is as unreliable as it is infrequent. And, it can also do harm to your motivation. Living by desperation of a big break can become enough of a habit that you fail to make calculated plans for success.

You will develop jack-rabbit start in everything you do and run out of gas long before you get to finish line.

It can cause you to completely overlook a viable opportunity when it comes your way. If opportunity looks like a big break and it smells like a big break, then make calculated risks and turn it into a planned strategy.

When You End Up With Lemons, Make Lemonade!

It doesn't necessarily have to be avoided. It just needs to be approached with a different attitude than someone would approach big break. I.e. The big break mentality.

If you consider big break as an accidental occurrence, then life does not become a series of desperation attempts. Surprisingly, big breaks can be helped by natural occurrences that happen accidentally.

But, worse thing you can do is to always be looking for one magic pill that will create a big bang and bring instant success. Living for big break will be a sure recipe for disaster.

Brink Of Disaster!

Big breaks will come around in a natural response to project you're trying to complete. Take advantage of them as they come naturally; just don't set up yourself for depending on them in a nick of time. You might find out your "nick" is on brink of disaster.

How do you know if you are waiting on big break? Ask yourself, have you analyzed upside and downside? If you have and can see what risks to reward are, then you are not waiting on big break.

You Won't Suffer From Stress, You'll Be A Carrier!

If you find yourself wringing your hands, hoping against hope, in fear of disaster, you're playing with fire. And, proverbial fat lady is just about ready to sing for you.

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She didn’t waste a lot of time talking about it, she didn’t try and explain anything to me, she showed me what to do by doing it herself, joyously, and she only took first step with me. She didn’t take whole monkey on her back. I have momentum now, with my garden. I see what to do and how to do it, and it’s ready for next step. I so much appreciated Aunt Bettie didn’t just tell me that my garden was a mess, or that I should go weed it, or that I didn’t have right tools, or that I ought to be ashamed my garden looked like that!

The best part is how much lighter I feel. Like any “toleration,” walking past that garden every day was something dragging at me that I was only vaguely aware of. Now that it’s something I can be proud, something that I (with Aunt Bettie’s help) did something about, I can feel self-esteem and own it, which is, in EQ terms, Personal Power.

Yesterday I went and bought a small fountain. It was only $79 at HomeDepot, and has a pump to recycle tiny bit of water it uses – maybe one quart. I sent a photo of it to my sister, who wrote back she was sorry she couldn’t have a fountain in her (beautiful) garden in her home in San Diego. “We don’t have enough water,” she said.

“It’s recycled water,” I began … and so Aunt Bettie’s gift goes on, and we extend learning. My sister now has a fountain, something she “never thought she could have.”

Coaching is very much like that. We simply work together to get results!