Continued from page 1
What's difference?
VALUE!
We always treat differently what we value.
That, I believe is Victoria's Secret, secret. For years this franchise has made a living by placing high value on female anatomy. You can't experience a shopping escapade like one mentioned above, see all colors and different fabrics designed to help a woman feel special, without seeing it.
THE APPLICATION
I wonder, have we cheapened human sexual experience and personally lost proper placement of value our creator has given our bodies?
When we show little concern about how we place our bodies on display. When we could care less about leaving anything to imagination. When our mentors are people showing most skin.
Have we lost issue of VALUE?
When program after program on TV reports teenagers engaging in sexual conduct with multiple partners on back of a school bus. When high-school age kids are admitting to sexual encounters in double digits before they graduate. When human sexuality is considered little different than an amusement park scream machine that anyone and everyone can ride if they wish.
Have we lost issue of VALUE?
Remember, we always treat differently what we value.
Are we failing to value sexual intimacy and bonding it brings to relationships? Are we failing to value sacredness and oneness such an act produces? Are we failing to realize lofty value our creator has given our bodies to be able to anatomically take part in creation process?
The next time somebody who belongs in a kennel (Snoop Dog) or someone who belongs in a bag (Eminem), through music or actions tries to impress upon you that "Girl's Gone Wild" actions are where body dignity is found, remember "Victoria's Secret". Your body has value, period.
The value you place on your body will be reflected in how you use it.
Stanley J. Leffew is the Author of, How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime. His website is based on this same theme. His site's unique Newsletter takes it's subscriber into "The Coffee Shop Of Make-Believe" for life and relationship empowerment. The Coffee Shop is OPEN at http://advice-for-lifetime-relationships.com.