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They were enjoying all
fruits of their many years of labor. Their dreams of just a few years ago, playing in front of huge crowds, of being recognized, had been realized - repeatedly.
In
beginning, we wanted nothing more than for these players to be given their due, for them to enjoy their success. Now they are living like
superstars they have always been, with fans hanging out in their hotel lobby and screaming for autographs wherever they go. Easy access is probably gone forever. Recognizing and understanding that was an eye-opener.
Imagine being a Bruce Springsteen fan in
early Stone Pony days, before he rocketed to worldwide fame and glory. Perhaps you had a chance to talk to him, maybe even hang out with him. While you knew he was something special and you wanted him to reach
rarefied air of superstardom, once he did, your little secret was out. No more casual chats. No more hanging out. Now you’re lucky to get an overpriced ticket in
nosebleed seats from a scalper.
But of course, like Bruce, try as they might, our National Team can no longer satisfy everyone. They still carry their own pens for autographs after
games, but now there are increased post-game media demands.
While goalkeeper Briana Scurry did
post-game ESPN interview that day in New Orleans, forwards Cindy Parlow and Mia Hamm were
first to be interviewed by
local media, followed by forward Tiffeny Milbrett, defender Brandi Chastain, and Head Coach April Heinrichs. The rest of
players signed autographs, but with 15,000 fans, it was simply impossible to accommodate every fan.
Leah didn’t try to acquire autographs that day. She already has plenty, and on that day, we also had field photo credentials. Not only is autograph-collecting taboo for "objective" journalists, but our memories of
game will be in
photos we captured.
After
game, as
players boarded
bus, I saw one woman approach a team official. She was ranting and raving that she had driven five hours to bring her daughter to
game and that her daughter didn’t get any autographs from
players. The team official explained that
players signed autographs for a half hour INSIDE
stadium, which was true.
Apparently, this woman and her daughter had been positioned in
wrong place and were headed home empty-handed. As she stormed off, she yelled, “BOOO Women’s National Team!! I’ll never come to another game! BOOO!”
I am certain other fans left empty-handed as well or disappointed with just one or two autographs. I am also certain this woman’s experience will be repeated during
current 10-game Fan's Celebration Tour and at future games as well.
Our National Team players are victims of their own success. After working so hard, for so long, to develop their fan support, it is simply impossible for them to continue to be so accessible and provide autographs to every fan who wants one.
So if you are lucky enough to see our National Team play this year or in any other games in
future, go to enjoy
skill,
intensity and
passion these gifted athletes put into their effort. If you are really lucky, and do get an autograph or two, even better.
But you shouldn’t be disappointed if you don’t get any autographs. And you should forewarn your kids that it might not be possible this time around, which will lessen their disappointment.
Finally, as you’re driving home, take advantage of
opportunity to focus with your kids on
positive values (hard work, commitment, perseverance) these incredible athletes exemplify. Those are lessons we should want all our children to learn.

Chris Lauber is the editor of Soccer Dreams, written by his daughter, Leah, to describe her true adventure following the U.S. Women’s National Soccer Team, as a fan and 12-year-old Junior Reporter during the historic 1999 Women’s World Cup, available at Amazon.com. Help make Soccer Dreams a Bestseller on Leah’s 18th birthday. Purchase Soccer Dreams at Amazon on November 8th and receive numerous bonuses. For details, send us an e-mail at WWCSoccerDreams@aol.com