True Love - Part 1

Written by Adeyemi Adetosoye


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Let’s analyzerepparttar last bit of my discourse for instance. Twins born ofrepparttar 122983 same womb would hardly always see eye to eye overrepparttar 122984 same issue. Husbands and wives, even after 50 years of marriage would still not see eye-to-eye on certain issues, yet they live together: happily, we hope. Hence, why wait forrepparttar 122985 perfect person?

Humans are basically emotional and whimsical creatures. We are not robots, cannot be programmed to do onlyrepparttar 122986 same things. The only way we discipline ourselves is via several years of repetition, till we perform almost by rote. Therefore, we can never be perfect. Not in everything. You can never get another man justrepparttar 122987 exact flavor,repparttar 122988 exact shade,repparttar 122989 exact build,repparttar 122990 exact manner of laughter,repparttar 122991 exact you name it. Even if he or she’s of pristine character, he may defer from his ways just because. Because what? Just because. BECAUSE WHAT? “CAUSE I FELT LIKE IT, OKAY?” Whimsical Creatures.

It could have been anything. The room temperature,repparttar 122992 color ofrepparttar 122993 sky, his boss may have spoken rudely to him, he got drenched inrepparttar 122994 rain, blah, blah, blah.

Okay, so don’t look for perfection. That’srepparttar 122995 first general rule of finding true love. In further articles, I will expound further on Finding True Love. ************************************************************************ Knowledge is NOT power; it is only empowering….The Application of Knowledge IS power. ************************************************************************

Christopher Adeyemi Adetosoye is author of A Man’s Guide to Finding True Love and A Woman’s Guide to Finding True Love, E-books, which are currently available at http://www.trueloveguide.com


True Love - Part 2

Written by Adeyemi Adetosoye


Continued from page 1

How then do you determine into what category he or she would fall. Persons inrepparttar first category can be readily recognized by I-don’t-care attitudes and contempt forrepparttar 122982 ‘despisee’, whilerepparttar 122983 other shows a sincere struggle within him or herself, to come to terms with what is going on.

Since we can tellrepparttar 122984 difference,repparttar 122985 next issue is addressing whatrepparttar 122986 issues are with this second person. This is valid, especially if one doesn’t want to get hurt inrepparttar 122987 long run, or pine over what can never be.

Ifrepparttar 122988 issue is that such a one has trouble making decisions, then time is what will let him or her know what you are worth. It is a red flag however, a warning sign. If he has trouble making a decision and you are notrepparttar 122989 only one in his life at that moment, then, even though he or she really likes you, perhaps, YOU ARE NOT ALL THAT HE EPITOMIZES THE ONE TO BE. Perhaps. Onrepparttar 122990 other hand, if he or she is being hindered by something else, more importantly, by someone else, that is another red flag. It could be that he or she is in a relationship and met you and can’t decide what to do since meeting you. Or it could be that he or she is struggling with something not yet confided to you. A dark secret, health issues, etc.

Either way, you need to encourage openness and honesty, so that you are aware of whatrepparttar 122991 issues are. In this regard, depending on whatrepparttar 122992 issues are, time will tell in what directionrepparttar 122993 relationship will swing. You will have to decide then what to do. Is he or she worth your getting hurt over? If so, prepare yourself forrepparttar 122994 worst case scenario; otherwise, move on. Either way, hurt may be involved.

This brings us torepparttar 122995 second general rule for finding true love. Prepare to exercise patience, for patience is a virtue; and remember that nothing good comes easy. I’ll expound further on Finding True Love, in my next article.

Christopher Adeyemi Adetosoye is author of A Man’s Guide to Finding True Love and A Woman’s Guide to Finding True Love, E-books, which are currently available at http://www.trueloveguide.com


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