"Trading Spouses" Teaches Relationship Building Through Cooking

Written by Laura Bankston


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Oh – and you know whatrepparttar Mom said about her bratty kids? She said that she “tried everything”. She tried sitting down and talking with them, she tried taking away toys, she tried sitting them in time-out. She tried it all, but nothing worked. Hmmmmm. Seems she left out THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE! The controlled, loving, whack acrossrepparttar 110958 caboose.

When are parents going to “get it” that loving, proper, consistent discipline when they’re young means that they’ll be controlled, loving, children that behave when they are 6, 7, and up.

AND – children can’t be happy if they aren’t disciplined. You can see it on their faces. Whiney, out-of-control children are miserable. And so is everyone around them, for that matter.

When’srepparttar 110959 last time that you’ve seen a miserable, well disciplined child? You haven’t. I mean, there are a few moments of bad attitude or whatever that quickly goes away with correction; but they are basically happy, content, and secure.

So, anyway, back to my story.

Each family was getting $50,000 forrepparttar 110960 trade. Butrepparttar 110961 catch was thatrepparttar 110962 visiting spouse maderepparttar 110963 decision of howrepparttar 110964 other family would spend their $50,000. The rich man’s answer to fixrepparttar 110965 low income family? Buyrepparttar 110966 house, remodel it – basically improve material possessions.

The country man’s answer to fixrepparttar 110967 wealthy family? Family relationship counseling, cooking lessons, and family vacation time.

And you guessed it –repparttar 110968 rich wife flipped out – she was planning on usingrepparttar 110969 $50,000 to pay for her son’s bar mitzvah!!

But, I’ll say one thing. The country man was right on for what that family needed. Less focus on “things” and more focus on “relationships”.

Actually, he was downright clever. He showed Americarepparttar 110970 #1 way to build family relationships…Cooking together.

Ahem. Ring a bell?

Cooking creates family bonds – across all ages – across all abilities. Too badrepparttar 110971 country man didn’t have more of that wisdom to have disciplined kids too.

So, if you’re already ahead ofrepparttar 110972 game with well behaved kids – don’t forget aboutrepparttar 110973 relationship side of things. And don’t overlookrepparttar 110974 easiest, most funnest ( he, he), I mean “fun” way to spend time with you kids – COOKING!!!!

Laura Bankston is author of “Homeschool Cooking in a Box” and the “Homeschool Cookbook”. She currently home schools her three children, maintains home school support websites, and manages their family-owned service business. For information on her curriculum and free home school support services, please visit http://www.homeschoolcookbook.com


Dogs Are Man's Best Friend

Written by Wendy Yeager


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Inrepparttar United States, one out of three families owns one or more dogs. Most dogs live anywhere from eight to fifteen years. When dogs are one year old, they are as physically mature as a 15 year old human. Dogs can see some color but not as vividly as humans, thus they are considered color blind. Yet, dogs can see much better in dim light than us. Dogs have us beat inrepparttar 110957 category of smell, also. Their sense of smell is up to one million times greater than humans!

Regardless of which kind of dog you choose- big, little, smooth haired, shaggy, fast, slow, playful or dignified, dogs make wonderful companions. Enjoy their companionship and remember they need plenty of love, attention, and petting to be happy!

Published by: Wendy Yeager http://www.wenmarcorp.com/dogs-go2

Published by: Wendy Yeager http://www.wenmarcorp.com/dogs-go2


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