Top Ten List of What to Do and What Not to Do in Relationships

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WOMEN

DO

1.When you want more quality time with your man, makerepparttar time you do have as positive as possible. 2.Trust and respect him. 3.Stop nagging. 4.Allow your partner time away from you without giving himrepparttar 144938 third degree. 5.Appreciaterepparttar 144939 little things he does for you and tell him so. 6.Make love creatively and often. Donít be afraid to initiate lovemaking. 7.Honor any agreements you have made with him. 8.Support his goals and direction. 9.Ask for what you want! (Believe it or not, no matter how much he loves you, he really canít read your mind.) 10.Accept his ďNoĒ gracefully, trusting that he would if he could.

DONíT

1.Go to bed angry with your partner. 2.Insist he always share his feelings with you. Talking about feelings is more what women need. 3.Attempt to converse with your partner during a good movie or sporting event. 4.Continue to ďgiveĒ in what you perceive is a lopsided relationship when you are at a point of resentment. 5.Criticize him or put him down, especiallyrepparttar 144940 things he does. 6.Scold your partner as if he were a child. 7.Use sex as a prize for good behavior orrepparttar 144941 withholding of sex as punishment for ďbadĒ behavior. 8.Compare him to a fictional character in a book, movie or soap drama and find him lacking. 9.Violate his privacy. 10.Try to change him. Appreciaterepparttar 144942 man he is right now.

There is so much to learn about satisfying relationships that your parents never showed you. Please donít become one ofrepparttar 144943 statistics of divorce or perhaps worse, stay in a miserable relationship to honor your marriage vows while having so many regrets about your life asrepparttar 144944 time ticks away.

Take charge and take control of your life. Learn some new ways to improverepparttar 144945 relationship you are already in or to prepare yourself for being a better, improved partner forrepparttar 144946 next person in your life. Contact Kim at 708-957-6047 or email at Kim@TheRelationshipCenter.biz about relationship coaching or take onerepparttar 144947 many Teleclasses scheduled onrepparttar 144948 Events Calendar at www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz. Donít wait until it is too late.

Kim Olver is a licensed professional counselor and a life/relationship coach. She helps people unleash their personal power by living from the inside out, focusing their time and energy on only those things they can control. She also helps people improve the quality of their relationships with the people in their lives. For further information about Kim visit her website at www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz or contact her at (708) 957-6047.


You CAN Improve Your Relationship

Written by Kim Olver


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A second consideration is simply that there are major differences in how men are in relationships compared to how women are. Women generally donít understand men becauserepparttar men donít act like women and similarly, men donít understand women because they donít act like men. And since a woman has never been a man and a man has never been a woman, how does each learn about these important differences? John Gray researched and wrote about these issues in his book, Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus. But I would say thatrepparttar 144937 majority of people in relationships donít takerepparttar 144938 time to learn about these gender differences. It is easier to point a finger and blamerepparttar 144939 other person for his or her ďirrationalĒ behavior.

As mentioned earlier, a third area of growth is learning how to manage conflict. There are time proven methods for resolving conflict that we donít learn in school or from a book. There are ways to actually hear each other in relationships. By placingrepparttar 144940 relationship FIRST in importance, these methods can be implemented by couples to greatly improve their satisfaction.

There is so much to learn about satisfying relationships that your parents never showed you. Please donít become one ofrepparttar 144941 statistics of divorce or perhaps worse, stay in a miserable relationship to honor your marriage vows while having so many regrets about your life asrepparttar 144942 time ticks away.

Take charge and take control of your life. Learn some new ways to improverepparttar 144943 relationship you are already in or to prepare yourself for being a better, improved partner forrepparttar 144944 next person in your life. Contact Kim at 708-957-6047 or email at Kim@TheRelationshipCenter.biz about relationship coaching or take onerepparttar 144945 many Teleclasses scheduled onrepparttar 144946 Events Calendar at www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz. Donít wait until it is too late.



Kim Olver is a licensed professional counselor and a life/relationship coach. She helps people unleash their personal power by living from the inside out, focusing their time and energy on only those things they can control. She also helps people improve the quality of their relationships with the people in their lives. For further information about Kim visit her website at www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz or contact her at (708) 957-6047.


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