The Skeletons in our Closet

Written by David Nelmes


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Having opened your heart to God and having asked for his help,repparttar first thing he must do...before anything else can occur...is to pull out allrepparttar 126813 skeletons from your closet. In other words, he can't help you with finances if there is greed in your life...he can't help your body to be healed while you have hate or unforgiveness in your heart...he can't help you findrepparttar 126814 perfect campanion in life while you are not honest with yourself. All these things, and thousands more, are blocking what you really need from God, so before he can answerrepparttar 126815 request you have made, he will bring circumstances into your life whererepparttar 126816 ugliest parts of you are exposed and/or brought into your awareness.

You may feel as though everything is going wrong...as though all is against you and that God has somehow become upset with you, but none of this is true to evenrepparttar 126817 smallest degree. These circumstances are opportunities for change. There are cycles in our lives where we makerepparttar 126818 same mistakes over and over again. The sole purpose of these cycles is so we can eventually choose to react differently and make a better choice. These cycles are blessings of opportunity and when you choose differently...when you say "no" to something you've said yes to for years...when you choose not to shout back at somebody...when you see your fellow man as equals...when you share kindness and love where you shared anger before...when these things occur...you can be sure that you are onrepparttar 126819 road to real healing.

Whenever you break a cycle, a part of your mind is healed. The mind, or essence of your spirit, isrepparttar 126820 real you, notrepparttar 126821 body. The body, being just a projection ofrepparttar 126822 mind, will change asrepparttar 126823 mind is healed. As withrepparttar 126824 crucifixion of Christ, he showed thatrepparttar 126825 body can be destroyed, but notrepparttar 126826 spirit...and he showed thatrepparttar 126827 spirit can even heal and bring backrepparttar 126828 body. With every healing, you become more loving, more peaceful, more patient, more wise and more joyful than you were before. With each cycle you break, your awareness ofrepparttar 126829 world around you becomes clearer and you are less likely to start new cycles that are not good for you. Eventually, without angels descending...without thunder and without burning bushes, you will realize that your original request didn't matter at all because it wasn'trepparttar 126830 problem. The only problem wasrepparttar 126831 distance that had grown between yourself and God.

You really never have to ask. Seek God first in all things spiritual and allrepparttar 126832 physical things of this world will work out perfectly for you. When you stop trying to do things to make change, you'll learn that all change comes from being. The things you do will change as you be more loving and as you be more patient...so focus on what God would have you be and then do whatever feels best.

Still feel like asking God for help? He's not looking to trip you. He's not seeking to hurt you. He's looking to provide you withrepparttar 126833 exact situations and circumstances necessary to draw you closer to him and improve every area of your life. The more open you become to him,repparttar 126834 less likely it is that your life situations will have to be as dramatic to get your attention. So it's in everyones best interests to be as open as possible at all times, because life just becomes much more pleasant and happy.

All things work together for good, because we all loverepparttar 126835 Lord...and even if you don't know it of yourself, he does.

*Compliments of: Dreams Alive Magazine - http://www.dreamsalivemagazine.com Being Willing - http://www.beingwilling.com



David Nelmes provides opportunities for those around him to see things from perspectives they had not considered before. His desire is for himself and all men to pursue truth and be open and willing to see what God would have us see. His influences consist of being truly open and applying the truths in both "The Bible" and "A Course In Miracles". See more at: - BeingWilling.com


Holding Onto Your Peace

Written by David Nelmes


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  • I would rather be at peace.
    • Knowing this and remembering this helps in finding and releasing anything that might stand inrepparttar way of restoring peace.

    The first thing to do is to hand over all non-peaceful thoughts torepparttar 126812 Holy Spirit so that he can judge them, refine them and then either dispel them because they are simply not real or return them to you as they really should be.

    This thought that I am somehow losing something, I place in your hands to correct.

    This thought that others are inconsiderate, I place in your hands to correct.

    This thought thatrepparttar 126813 situation will never be resolved, I place in your hands to correct.

    This thought thatrepparttar 126814 world is against me, I place in your hands to correct.

    This thought that he will never be healed, I place in your hands to correct.

    A key focus on really getting past many issues that return, time and time again is to see and understand that you are often holding on very tightly to what our society and religion has declared as Our Rights. Your right To Be Angry, will distance you from God, as will your right to not forgive...your right for vengeance, your right to be upset, your right to hold somebody else responsible, your right for man-made justice, your right to hold onto your man-made rights, etc. etc., etc.

    As long as you hold onto these dark rights, you can never truly forgive...you can never truly get past an event and you can never truly be at peace. It can appear difficult to give up your right to hate somebody that has done something to you or to a loved one, but it is one ofrepparttar 126815 most important steps you will have taken to breakingrepparttar 126816 cycle of events that occur over and over again in your life. You don't have to like what a person did or is still doing, but you can learn to separaterepparttar 126817 person fromrepparttar 126818 actions they are doing and know they are not one inrepparttar 126819 same.

    I give up my right to be upset at her.

    I give up my right to not forgive him.

    I give up my right to thinking they should suffer for what they have done.

    Say it...mean it and know thatrepparttar 126820 Holy Spirit hears it, has been waiting for it and will heal your mind about it. The bottom line is that as long as you desire to hold onto these dark rights, you are also choosing, planning and acceptingrepparttar 126821 situations that occur so that you can practice and languish in that dark right.

    There is nothing you can do to healrepparttar 126822 way you think and feel, other than to be willing to let your mind be healed. You can't fix it by yourself. If we did know how to fix our own perceptions, we wouldn't be inrepparttar 126823 situation inrepparttar 126824 world that we are. By being willing to change, you are openingrepparttar 126825 door forrepparttar 126826 Holy Spirit to removerepparttar 126827 blocks and obstacles you have set in place between yourself andrepparttar 126828 light. By choosing peace, you are allowing God to heal your perception of this world.

    I choose to see things clearly.

    I choose to see things differently.

    I am willing and open to hear and seerepparttar 126829 truth.

    The healing of your mind happens. The extent of your faith may limit this, but there is no way to prevent it. It is what God wants for you. For every microsecond that you are truly open to being healed, God is there, healing your mind, opening your mind and patiently waiting forrepparttar 126830 moment he is allowed in again. You might not see it or hear it as is occurs, but later that day, later that week, you will notice you are reacting differently to that situation that bothered you so much before. You will find that you see people differently than you did before. You will experiencerepparttar 126831 realization that your healing occurred... not as a loud fiery boom inrepparttar 126832 sky, but as a gentle and peaceful growing within you. Peace and everything that brings about peace is everything that is not loud and distracting. Peace is gentle and calm, as isrepparttar 126833 method God uses to heal our minds.

    Another good thing to remember is that you only receive whatever it is that you truly desire to give, so whatever you want for yourself, give that thing and then you shall have it as well. Jesus said it best when he said we should love who we perceive as our enemies and pray for them. Would he have you pray forrepparttar 126834 hopeless? Would he expect you to keep seeing them as enemies? Your prayers for them do matter and they do help to open their hearts more so that God can work with them. In sharing this desire about them, you have forgiven them and have opened your own heart more and God can perform more healing in your life as well. You get what you give because in giving, you are also discovering and accepting what God has already given you.

    I extend peace and wisdom to you whom I thought was against me.

    I desire that you be happy and at peace and that you would bask inrepparttar 126835 warmth of total forgiveness and love.

    Your happiness is my happiness. I extend my love and forgiveness to you.

    God, Love and Peace have never changed, and are always exactly where they always have been...inside you allrepparttar 126836 time...a part of you that is you. Holding onto your peace is simply a series of methods you use that help you remember this. Your methods might not berepparttar 126837 same as mine and my methods might not berepparttar 126838 same as yours, butrepparttar 126839 overall spirit of wanting peace, love and forgiveness in our lives isrepparttar 126840 same. You can and will find ways to hold onto your peace because that is what I want for you, it is what you want for you and it is what God wants for you. It's impossible for you not to be able to hold onto your peace if that is what you truly desire because your will and Gods will are one. Both you and God want peace for you and both you and God want you to return home.

    I extend my peace, love, forgiveness, health, faith, patience and wisdom to you all.

    *Compliments of: Dreams Alive Magazine - http://www.dreamsalivemagazine.com Being Willing - http://www.beingwilling.com



    David Nelmes provides opportunities for those around him to see things from perspectives they had not considered before. His desire is for himself and all men to pursue truth and be open and willing to see what God would have us see. His influences consist of being truly open and applying the truths in both "The Bible" and "A Course In Miracles". See more at: - BeingWilling.com


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