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And so you may think these things will bring you self-esteem. Yet actually what they will bring you is only a good feeling for as long as they last. And a feeling of insecurity in case they don’t last.
Why won’t they change your self-esteem?
Because self-esteem really has nothing to do with anything other than your own judgement of worthy you are. This depends on your understanding of world and how you fit into it. All stuff around you will change. So losses will happen… friendships will end… looks will fade… and successes will pass. But only thing that is constant and always with you is you.
So to really develop a belief in yourself… that doesn’t depend on everything going right… a belief that will comfort and support you whatever happens in life… you need to understand exactly where you fit in grand scheme of universe.
Its not as snappy as usual kind of three steps you usually see. It’s not as much fun as going out more. Nor is it as obvious as achieving more. But by developing a philosophy that guides you – you’ll prevent ever being back in same situation again.
Robert McPhillips is dedicated to finding the quickest and simplest path to happiness and sharing this through www.adamo-life.com and www.coachingtohappiness.com