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And so you may think these things will bring you self-esteem. Yet actually what they will bring you is only a good feeling for as long as they last. And a feeling of insecurity in case they don’t last.
Why won’t they change your self-esteem?
Because self-esteem really has nothing to do with anything other than your own judgement of worthy you are. This depends on your understanding of
world and how you fit into it. All
stuff around you will change. So losses will happen… friendships will end… looks will fade… and successes will pass. But
only thing that is constant and always with you is you.
So to really develop a belief in yourself… that doesn’t depend on everything going right… a belief that will comfort and support you whatever happens in life… you need to understand exactly where you fit in
grand scheme of
universe.
Its not as snappy as
usual kind of three steps you usually see. It’s not as much fun as going out more. Nor is it as obvious as achieving more. But by developing a philosophy that guides you – you’ll prevent ever being back in
same situation again.
