On other hand, easy way means you feel a sense of purpose and drive to achieve more for your own satisfaction and enjoyment. You get more done in less time and you feel energized by your goals. And even better, people respect and value you in a whole new way.

Which do you prefer - easy way or hard way?

Knowledge is Power.

Right now I can turn on or turn off my own motivation at will without needing other people to coax me into action.

And it is easy when you know how.

Once I found an approach that worked all I did was follow step-by-step instructions and my world changed as quickly as I changed.

And this can happen for you even faster than you think...

When you become a master of self-motivation you will wonder why you waited so long to get your hands on knowledge that was here for you all along.

Think about it for a moment. Why do you want to be more motivated?

What are most important reasons why you want to improve this aspect of your life?

What have you missed out on by neglecting this crucial skill?

The time to change is now - until you do, another day, another week and another month will slip by and you will be no further forward in your life. If you are waiting for perfect time you will wait forever. It is time to try a new and better way...

We cannot hide our intent – it will always come through in our energy and our tone of voice. However you might try to mask an intent to control, other will always pick up on it and probably react to it with his or her own controlling behavior.

You are coming from a place of personal power when your intent is to take loving care of yourself rather than control other. Since you cannot ultimately control another, trying to will leave you feeling frustrated and powerless.

The challenging part of this is taking loving action on your own behalf. In order to take loving care of yourself, you need to be willing to let go of outcome regarding how other person will feel and behave. If you are focused on controlling how other person will feel in face of your actions, then you will not be able to take loving action. If your focus is on other person, such as, “He will feel hurt and angry if I leave party,” or “She will be furious with me if I leave without her,” or “He will feel rejected and tell me I am running away from conflict if I leave room when he is critical,” then you will be unable to take loving action.

Only if you are in compassion for yourself will you be able to act on your own behalf. Compassion for yourself means that you are 100% willing to take responsibility for your own feelings rather than trying to get someone else to do it for you, or rather than trying to control another’s feelings. It means that you are willing for other person to be upset with you rather than continue to be treated unkindly.

People tend to mirror how we treat ourselves. If you tolerate unkind treatment, you are letting others know that it is okay to treat you badly. By taking loving care of yourself in face of others’ unkind behavior, you will find that generally others will respect you and treat you well.