The Roles of Parent, Savior, Teacher and Super-responsible

Written by Robert Elias Najemy

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1: We are all is 100% responsible for our own reality. 2: We are all guided from within. 3: The others are totally responsible forrepparttar reality they create. 4. My self-worth is totally independent of what is happening with others. 5. My self-worth is independent of other people?s ability to trust me or not. 6. I am responsible only for my efforts and not forrepparttar 126278 results of my efforts. 7. I deserve love and respect exactly as I am. 8. I trust others andrepparttar 126279 Divine. 9. I feel united with others when I share my weaknesses and faults with them. 10. I am worthy of love and respect because of my being, not because of any role I play.

Those around Anthony can:

1. Understand that he is seeking his self-worth and inner security by playing this role. 2. Take responsibility for their own reality. 3. Lovingly refuse to allow him to overwhelm them and take control of their own lives. 4. Lovingly assert their need to take responsibility for their own decisions and acceptrepparttar 126280 consequences of those decisions.

(Adapted fromrepparttar 126281 "The Psychology of Happiness" by Robert Najemy available at and This book and other writings can be viewed at where you can also download FREE articles and e-books.)

Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes on Human Harmony and 20 books, which have sold over 100,000 copies. He is the Founder and director of the Center for Harmonious Living in Greece with 3700 members. His book The Psychology of Happiness; ISBN 0-9710116-0-5 is available at and where you can view and download FREE articles and e-books.

Beating Fear!

Written by Lisa van den Berg

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The subconscious holds on to this pre-determined pattern for dear life. This is what it knows to be true of its Universe and it will fight to save it. This isrepparttar reason why you can sometimes try as hard as you like, and still fail.

This is where subconscious conditioning comes into play.

Sometimesrepparttar 126277 fear of overcomingrepparttar 126278 fear is greater than repparttar 126279 original fear. It means we will have to go out and DO SOMETHING about our fears (and that can be really scary:-)

The feeling, however, that you experience once you've conquered that fear, isrepparttar 126280 most amazingly exhilarating feeling around. To know that you looked that audience square inrepparttar 126281 eyes and deliveredrepparttar 126282 best speech of your life, fills you with a tremendous sense of achievement and a solid foundation that says, 'I CAN do anything!'

Strive always to 'Feelrepparttar 126283 Fear...And Do It Anyway! The exhilaration you will feel on overcoming a blockage that has plagued you for so long, will be well worthrepparttar 126284 blood, sweat and tears of blasting through that barrier.

Lisa van den Berg is the author of ‘Alleviate Stress – 12 Simple and Easy Ways to Transform Your Life!’ Take the free online Stress Test at to see how much stress you’re under and why you need to do something about it right now!

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