Women are great communicators connecting easily with people. They are resilient in face of adversity and are networking pros reaching out for support. Instead of hoarding information, women freely share with others. They are emotionally tuned-in and have gift of expressing it.

Women have courage to be honest and outspoken. When dealing with stress, women can have a pedicure or go shopping. Best of all, women don’t need to compete with men to be successful. They can stand on their own, or be united to reach goals. Femininity is personal power and at no other time in history has society been so touched by power of women.

While many women may still be judged by shape of their legs, corporations are zooming in on feminine traits. With a new female leadership style emerging, women are hired into positions of power because of their skills and femininity. Obviously, many companies believe that best man for job is still a woman. Society has finally concluded that lack of female energy is reason for most problems in our world.

Women have what it takes to create a more peaceful world of human equality. Our time has come to capitalize on our feminine traits and warmth of our hearts to rock world. No matter what background, religion or race we come from, we don’t need to look outside for validation. Our strength lies within. The world needs us. It needs our courage to forge ahead, our intuition to discern, our passion for humanity and our wisdom to see big picture. Women must stand united in their feminine spirit to bring about global changes. There is nothing quite like women with a purpose, who rise to occasion.

© 2004 Allie Ochs, Speaker, Coach and Author of: Are You Fit To Love? www.fit2love.com

Does it mean that we should only date Ugly people to reassure our insecurities?

I think not. Be aware that if you find someone beautiful, there are at least 15 other people out there who finds your mate attractive, whether he or she has a die hard body or just with a “few pounds to lose.” Beauty is within eyes of beholder.

The infidelity rate is slightly higher towards Women then Men. I was surprised when I read that but it actually does make sense. Women become dissatisfied easily compared to Men. And dissatisfaction can be much more complex then a man can understand or fulfill. Also, women being part of an essential part of work force, opportunities are more frequent then when they use to be homemakers.

Selfishness is also another indicator of your level of devotion. Selfishness does not care about feeling of others and that feeling exits in present only. It is an immature behavior that we are supposed to have evolved from at teenage age. Think about it a little bit: when someone is unfaithful, in moment, that person doesn’t think at all of consequences or how partner might feel!

I would say that, in end, it is commitment and level of respect for yourself and your partner that determines if there will be less chances of infidelity within your relationship. With openness and caring of feelings of your partner, you will be able not to be tempted by that chick at work, or that overly nice and somewhat handsome colleague at work.

So look for that person with a noble heart, a high level of maturity, who demonstrates admiration, respect and generosity towards you. This is a clear indication of a healthy shield towards temptation.