As funny and point-blank as I am what makes photo poignant is what my newlywed husband is doing. What’s that? Exactly what he always does—he’s taking care of me.

As my attention is elsewhere, he’s standing there patiently picking tiny pieces of birdseed out of my hair. The thing is, he looks like he’s got not another thing in world to do, not one other thing to worry about. Amazing. Us in living color.

Many, many times since that photo was taken we’ve relived that moment. Me taking care of others, me ordering world around us, him patiently taking care of me. Now, twelve years later, during present incarnation of our relationship, I’m one out there trying to learn new things. I’m one out there taking us out of our comfort zone, pulling us in directions we never could have seen or imagined at that moment.

But thing is, I can take those chances, chase those dreams because I know with no doubt that he will always be right there, patiently keeping me together. It’s how we’ve always been. I have proof.

The site would have to be password protected, with a high level of security. Family and friends should be able to send messages privately and securely, and display photos in picture albums and post notices on bulletin boards. Being family oriented, there should be a way to send e-cards and announcements to acknowledge special occasions (anniversaries, birthdays, etc.) remembered on site. It would be useful to have private chat rooms for everyone to keep current on latest family news. This, indeed, would be a place where memories and family history could be created and preserved.

Would you visit a web site that made it easy and fun to communicate with family and friends and that had no advertising, no pop-ups or pop-under, and no one interfering with your family members? Does such a web site exist?