Seeking Slender Threads

Seeking slender threads weaving our lives can also lead us toward meaningful work. What are slender threads? "Being in a particular place at just right time, meeting someone who steers you in an unforeseen direction, unexpected appearance of work or money or inspiration just when they are most needed. Whether called fate, destiny or hand of God, slender threads are at work…weaving remarkable tapestry of our lives." Robert A. Johnson, Balancing Heaven and Earth.

Viewing my own life I see how those slender threads - chance meetings - patterned decades of my life. I see how some of my best career choices came about through some great benevolent force guiding me, connecting me to necessary people and experiences more so than my well-made plans or goals. All I did was get information I could, put myself out there and then, follow little steps revealed to me.

If you are in job search or looking for career direction put yourself "out there" and be open to slender threads. Look and listen for unexpected connections or clues. Pay attention to meaningful words that suddenly catch your attention or replay in your mind whether from a passing stranger, friend, dream, song, TV show, book title, or….

Tell everyone you meet you are in career change, soul searching, job search…find your own words. In a sentence or two let them know what you enjoy doing, what your skills are, what interests you or where you would like to work. Ask if they can think of a job title that might suit someone like you, or where you might apply for work, or who else could they suggest for you talk to.

People love to help if we will but open ourselves to their generosity. Take little steps. Pause, relax and trust your small inner voice. Look for slender threads weaving majestic tapestry of our lives. Herein, follow guidance toward your right livelihood.

Decide what matters most to you. Do you want a job that allows you to explore your creativity? Or do you want something that delights in your scientific mind? What are your personal convictions and how will they shape this new you? Well, why not find this position? You can—all you have to do is decide what you want and go for it.

Your personality and personal goals can be reached. Yes, you lost a job. It happens; accept it. That’s first step to finding yourself and job of your dreams. The second step? Self-awareness. Take time to search yourself. Decide what is important, what is essential, and where you want to go in life. The possibilities are endless.

Once you’ve accepted your job loss and have decided on what you want in life, only things left to do is go for it. Remember: this will not be easy. You will have to work for what you want, especially since this new life should be an improvement over your last. You want best and that takes time and determination. But, it is worth it. Your happiness is worth it.

Losing a job can be difficult; however, it can also be first step to a happier, more fulfilled life.