• TAKE EMOTIONAL RESPONSIBILITY:

* Attend to your feelings throughout day and explore what you may be doing that is causing painful feelings, rather than making others responsible for your feelings.

* Attend to your own needs rather than expecting others to meet your needs.

* Accept yourself rather than judge yourself. Validate yourself, approve of yourself – tell yourself things you want to hear from others. Value your talents and gifts.

* Value your intrinsic worth rather than just your looks or performance – your kindness, compassion, creativity, caring.

* Behave in ways that you value – being loving, kind, integreous, compassionate, understanding, caring.

* Pursue work you love, work that fulfills you, if possible.

• TAKE PHYSICAL RESPONSIBILITY:

* Feed yourself well to maintain health and appropriate weight.

* Get enough rest and exercise.

* Create balance between work and play and creative time.

* Make sure you are physically safe such as when riding a motorcycle.

• TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY:

* Make sure you are financially independent rather than dependent upon another, if physically able to do so.

* Spend within your means to avoid fear and stress of debt.

• TAKE RELATIONSHIP RESPONSIBILITY:

* Stand up for yourself and speak your truth rather than complying, defending or resisting in face of others’ demands or criticism. Don’t be a victim.

* Refrain from blaming others, with anger and criticism, for your feelings and behavior. Don’t be a victim.

• TAKE ORGANIZATIONAL RESPONSIBILITY:

* Do what you say you are going to do regarding time and chores.

* Make sure your living space and work environment are clean and tidy, and esthetically pleasing.

• TAKE SPIRITUAL RESPONSIBILITY:

* Take time to connect with love and truth of God/Higher Power.

* Take time throughout day to bring love down to level of your feeling self – your Inner Child.

Treating yourself in these loving ways will eventually result in feeling internally special rather than needing others to make you feel special.

As Jennifer practiced making herself special, she discovered that her relationships with others were becoming stronger and more fulfilling. People were no longer pulling away from her, resisting her, or defending themselves against her demands for attention. Her behavior naturally and gradually changed with others when she was treat herself as a special person.

From Mahabharata to Iliad we see hand of higher beings that played god with mere mortals wrapped in their egoistic emphasis on dross physical senses that greedily take so much energy away from soulful pursuits. Just because time appears linear does not make it any truer than appearance eyes of an owl recognizes when it sees in dimensions of energy our more limited eyes cannot capture. Perhaps an even more relevant acquisition technology in animal kingdom has to do with how insects and birds find their way back to a specific territory or 'home'. Neils Bohr said something like this: - 'A great truth has an opposite which is also true. A trivial truth has an opposite which is false.'

Ninety-five per cent of all energy in universe is made up of Dark Energy or Dark Matter. This is a scientific fact recently discovered but not considered in everyday working world of most academic disciplines. I think there is a good chance that long before Diocles in second century BCE there were people on earth who understood harmonic of light a lot better than any until present day. It is also interesting to see that Arcadia is where Benjaminites are taken by their Phoenician/Merovingian friends after they are thrown out of Israel. In second to third century BCE it is also where a Greek named Diocles is working with light and Harmonic thereof to cause something that today we know can create or be useful if Atomic Fusion. Arcadia is an important clue in Grail research that leads to Nova Scotia and enigmatic message system in paintings by likes of Poussin and Teniers.

Lao-Tzu went to west of his native China as he approached his death; in order to meet Ancient Adept Masters who we believe are those Red-Heads of Tarim Basin/Taklamakan Desert/Altaic Mountains near greatest recent Empire's Khan - Temujin's homeland or birthplace. You can see photos of these 6'6" giants with their witch’s hats in Discovery, National Geographic or The Mummies of Urumchi. The reason they had a pyramidal witch’s hat was to focus cosmic energy to their pineal glands.

Lao-Tzu is one of history's greatest philosophers and religious personages. He knew these adepts had power to affect Trojan War and all people on earth by means never written because Verbal Tradition was aware of dangers of interpreters with partial knowledge and fewer ethical constructs. Today these same hats are called 'dunce caps' as teachers teach prejudices of ego and power-mongering proselytes and politicians.

Forty other books I’ve done include reference and archaeologic proof or science that confirms these grossly general statements or personal anecdotes. These books I have written in last few years have added a great deal to my certainty that man is not able to fully understand meaning behind Mayan saying - 'Do not put your Self, in front of YOUR self! - It means an entirely different thing when stated thusly - 'Do NOT put yourself, in front of your SELF!' There are many other ways to play with emphasis and come up with more insights on collective soul versus personality and ego. The Mayans are likely right about end of this human civilization in 2012 as we see 'terrorism' defined by one side as evil and other as 'The Great Satan'. Hopefully coming civilization will include human beings and not just nanobots with human brain contents dumped into them.