The Need to Feel Special

Written by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

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* Attend to your feelings throughoutrepparttar day and explore what you may be doing that is causing painful feelings, rather than making others responsible for your feelings.

* Attend to your own needs rather than expecting others to meet your needs.

* Accept yourself rather than judge yourself. Validate yourself, approve of yourself – tell yourselfrepparttar 126107 things you want to hear from others. Value your talents and gifts.

* Value your intrinsic worth rather than just your looks or performance – your kindness, compassion, creativity, caring.

* Behave in ways that you value – being loving, kind, integreous, compassionate, understanding, caring.

* Pursue work you love, work that fulfills you, if possible.


* Feed yourself well to maintain health and appropriate weight.

* Get enough rest and exercise.

* Create balance between work and play and creative time.

* Make sure you are physically safe such as when riding a motorcycle.


* Make sure you are financially independent rather than dependent upon another, if physically able to do so.

* Spend within your means to avoidrepparttar 126108 fear and stress of debt.


* Stand up for yourself and speak your truth rather than complying, defending or resisting inrepparttar 126109 face of others’ demands or criticism. Don’t be a victim.

* Refrain from blaming others, with anger and criticism, for your feelings and behavior. Don’t be a victim.


* Do what you say you are going to do regarding time and chores.

* Make sure your living space and work environment are clean and tidy, and esthetically pleasing.


* Takerepparttar 126110 time to connect withrepparttar 126111 love and truth of God/Higher Power.

* Take time throughoutrepparttar 126112 day to bringrepparttar 126113 love down torepparttar 126114 level of your feeling self – your Inner Child.

Treating yourself in these loving ways will eventually result in feeling internally special rather than needing others to make you feel special.

As Jennifer practiced making herself special, she discovered that her relationships with others were becoming stronger and more fulfilling. People were no longer pulling away from her, resisting her, or defending themselves against her demands for attention. Her behavior naturally and gradually changed with others when she was treat herself as a special person.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: or Phone sessions available.

Windows of the Soul

Written by Robert Bruce Baird

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Fromrepparttar Mahabharata torepparttar 126106 Iliad we seerepparttar 126107 hand of higher beings that played god with mere mortals wrapped in their egoistic emphasis onrepparttar 126108 dross physical senses that greedily take so much energy away from soulful pursuits. Just because time appears linear does not make it any truer thanrepparttar 126109 appearancerepparttar 126110 eyes of an owl recognizes when it sees in dimensions of energy our more limited eyes cannot capture. Perhaps an even more relevant acquisition technology inrepparttar 126111 animal kingdom has to do with how insects and birds find their way back to a specific territory or 'home'. Neils Bohr said something like this: - 'A great truth has an opposite which is also true. A trivial truth has an opposite which is false.'

Ninety-five per cent of allrepparttar 126112 energy inrepparttar 126113 universe is made up of Dark Energy or Dark Matter. This is a scientific fact recently discovered but not considered inrepparttar 126114 everyday working world of most academic disciplines. I think there is a good chance that long before Diocles inrepparttar 126115 second century BCE there were people on earth who understoodrepparttar 126116 harmonic of light a lot better than any untilrepparttar 126117 present day. It is also interesting to see that Arcadia is whererepparttar 126118 Benjaminites are taken by their Phoenician/Merovingian friends after they are thrown out of Israel. Inrepparttar 126119 second to third century BCE it is also where a Greek named Diocles is working with light andrepparttar 126120 Harmonic thereof to cause something that today we know can create or be useful if Atomic Fusion. Arcadia is an important clue in Grail research that leads to Nova Scotia andrepparttar 126121 enigmatic message system in paintings byrepparttar 126122 likes of Poussin and Teniers.

Lao-Tzu went torepparttar 126123 west of his native China as he approached his death; in order to meetrepparttar 126124 Ancient Adept Masters who we believe are those Red-Heads ofrepparttar 126125 Tarim Basin/Taklamakan Desert/Altaic Mountains nearrepparttar 126126 greatest recent Empire's Khan - Temujin's homeland or birthplace. You can see photos of these 6'6" giants with their witch’s hats in Discovery, National Geographic or The Mummies of Urumchi. The reason they had a pyramidal witch’s hat was to focus cosmic energy to their pineal glands.

Lao-Tzu is one of history's greatest philosophers and religious personages. He knew these adepts had power to affectrepparttar 126127 Trojan War and all people on earth by means never written becauserepparttar 126128 Verbal Tradition was aware ofrepparttar 126129 dangers of interpreters with partial knowledge and fewer ethical constructs. Today these same hats are called 'dunce caps' as teachers teachrepparttar 126130 prejudices of ego and power-mongering proselytes and politicians.

Forty other books I’ve done includerepparttar 126131 reference and archaeologic proof or science that confirms these grossly general statements or personal anecdotes. These books I have written inrepparttar 126132 last few years have added a great deal to my certainty that man is not able to fully understandrepparttar 126133 meaning behindrepparttar 126134 Mayan saying - 'Do not put your Self, in front of YOUR self! - It means an entirely different thing when stated thusly - 'Do NOT put yourself, in front of your SELF!' There are many other ways to play withrepparttar 126135 emphasis and come up with more insights onrepparttar 126136 collective soul versusrepparttar 126137 personality and ego. The Mayans are likely right aboutrepparttar 126138 end of this human civilization in 2012 as we see 'terrorism' defined by one side as evil andrepparttar 126139 other as 'The Great Satan'. Hopefullyrepparttar 126140 coming civilization will include human beings and not just nanobots with human brain contents dumped into them.

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