The Importance of Hobbies Written by Rexanne Mancini
Continued from page 1 when they can't get a dance step first 10 tries by letting them know that, usually, nothing worthwhile comes easily. If their favorite shell breaks, drag yourself through hell and back to find a replacement. This shows them you believe in their humble collection and you understand it's value and importance in their life. They will learn to respect their unique passion and move forward into adulthood feeling good about healthy choices they make to keep themselves occupied in their 'down' time. This type of positive reinforcement will also encourage them to spend their free time doing something other than hanging out with other bored individuals who are bound to try some type of inane activity just for thrill of it all. You might even decide to get involved in 'collecting' or 'creating' yourself. Having a mutual hobby might just create a bond worth its weight in super glue with your child.

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Continued from page 1 be held accountable for his actions, however, he should be held accountable as child he was at time of incident and still is. His mother should be held even more accountable. She was adult in charge. Where was she when this little girl received 30 horrendous injuries? In hindsight, it’s easy to say it was a huge mistake to leave her son alone with little Tiffany Eunick. But where was her head when she rejected plea bargain of three years in a juvenile facility and ten years probation that would have been a more realistic sentence for this boy? Granted, Lionel Tate was a troubled child. His life had been littered with problematic behavior for quite a few years before this incident. All more reason to hold his mother accountable for what clearly has been negligent parenting. It might be unfair to blame Lionel’s mother for his actions, however, as his parent, she needed to find a way to help her son adapt to society when he was clearly lacking adequate social skills. Tiffany Eunick would most likely be alive today and Lionel Tate a carefree teenager had she taken her parenting role more seriously. Again, hindsight makes it all seem so easy. Parenting is not easy. To raise a responsible citizen, we must be responsible parents. If our children are creating problems, we must take measures to find solutions for them to better cope with world before they destroy their lives and lives of innocent victims.

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