Trust me. You were not born to be "mild." So cut it out! There's an entire universe out there starving for your gifts. How long will you continue to wait to take those last four classes needed for your degree? What career have you just been "wishing it were so" about? If all you can see is yourself remaining 16 units short of your degree, how can you possibly prepare for an exciting future? If you can't believe for a meaningful vocation now, will you have passion to believe for one later?

Challenge yourself. Commit to do just two things this hour that will untap your brilliance. Revamp your resume; make a phone call to your advisor. Even a modest amount of brilliance unreleased, would relay message to your brain: "Wow, she's serious!"

Ignite your passion. Inhale, then excel. Stand and deliver! See, then be!

Your life matters. Visualize your brilliance totally unreleased. Then boldly, step into vision.

We need not be guilty of creating a life of happiness. There is no need to hurt those who have limited us in freeing ourselves. And, in some cases, we may need to break free from a career, a job, a relationship, or even family in order to create life we want. However, most letting go is not usually burning a bridge, but often letting go is an inside job: letting go might mean changing our belief pattern, a way we process emotion, or how we view life.

Sometimes there just isn't room in our lives for anything new. So some times letting go is just making room for new. We struggle with letting anything go we like our sameness. It is like an old bath robe comfortable though it is falling apart.

Some times negative things are comfortable. They are all we have ever known and we don't know what will fill that empty place they will leave if we really let them go. This is where faith comes in we have to know that we deserve something different and our good is on its way.

This process is an inside job. By changing what we BELIEVE we deserve, letting go of our our negative self-criticism, and embracing loving thoughts and behavior, we can create life of abundance, joy, fun, and love that we deserve.

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