_3_SHOW YOUR PRESENCE!!! Once you are a member of a dating site, it is recommended that you show your presence by visiting site at least once a week. That way you can keep in touch with people you started to flirt with, and continue finding new prospects.

_4_COMPOSING FLIRT MESSAGES! Most dating sites offer you tips on how to present yourself and compose attractive messages. You do not have to be perfect, keep it simple and fun. Send out at least 3 messages (1: introduce yourself, 2: share same interests, 3: give out compliments) before sharing all your personal information such as your life, phone number or even your email.

_5_ASK FOR REFERRALS!!! While you are flirting online, you will experience rejections with some relations. Don't get discouraged, try to end virtual relation on good terms and do not be shy on asking that person if she or he can refer you to other singles who share same interests.

*********************************************************** ■"Concentrating on ONE relationship or on SEVERAL?"

In online dating community, it is hard to know if partner you are interested in is only attracted to you or is he or she mingling in same time with others. As a single, looking for a long term relationship over web, there is no other way but to search that soul mate through trial and error (this dose not mean that while you are learning more about your number one prospect, you are actually dating five other persons). The trick is to keep it simple and let relationship take its natural course, do not force issues. So while you are trying to make things happen with your number one prospect, try putting your self in a friendship bases with all other prospect you encountered. If number one prospect doesn't turn out to be what you where expecting, you will allways have others to follow.

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