The Art of Diverting Negative Energy Written by Melissa Zollo
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3.Thoughts create. There is no such thing as fiction. If people are indulging in ideas that are harmful to you it is wise to learn how to excuse yourself from their company. They may not have a clue about choosing thoughts and intentional creation. But you do! 4.Emotional moods influence and direct everything towards that which they are in tune with. 5.When you can sustain a higher mood around a miserable person, you will know that you are in alignment with your dream fulfilled and have overcome negative energy field of that person. 6.In your delight and joyful moods you will grow and advance spiritually. People who indulge in negativity are destructive to themselves and to others. People who dwell in positive, hopeful moods benefit themselves as well as everyone in their environment. "When two or more are fused as one, Spirit's work on earth is done." This means when your conscious and subconscious mind are in agreement, manifestation will occur. It also means that when someone else originates an idea and you resonate with it - manifestation will occur. Let me give you some examples of later point: A.Have you ever seen road rage? Someone gets real upset and starts honking his or her horn, cutting off people etc. Next thing you know 5 other cars are beeping and cursing someone. If you are someone who gets frustrated, upset and bent out of shape easily, and you meet Mr. Road Rage while out for a drive, you can bet money that once those angry thoughts are in air and you respond, you will have become his or her road partner. You may not even know why you are suddenly mad or in a bad mood, or have a headache when you get home. B.Did you ever notice that come a certain season you are bombarded with cold and flu suggestions? Someone who is in habit of letting his or her feelings run wild will tend to get sick. On other hand if you are a positive, upbeat, happy person who always strengthens your health beliefs you will not resonate with this disease strategy. C.If you are vulnerable and can easily be made to feel guilty by an aggressive, jealous person and you walk into their energy field, you can bet millions that their vibrations will strike a blow at guilt cells in your brain. They will strangle your joy and leave you impotent and unable to walk away from their nonsense. Negative thoughts are detrimental to person thinking them as well as those who resonate with them. D.Have you ever tried to change a drinking or eating habit? You are going along doing fine when someone you care about lashes out at you with a comment that collapses your focus. It strikes up a chord of rejection in your memory bank. Before you know it, you are back at cookie jar or reaching for nearest drink. As Dalai Lama once said: "The road to happiness is rigged with land mines. There are destructive emotions that cause pain and suffering and can be triggered at any time by people whose minds are not trained to apply antidotes to overpower negative with positive." Rest assured that whatever energy you give off and arouse in others you will in time attract back a similar amount of that same energy. Until you know how to move into new states of mind and consciously energize new positive images you will be at mercy of negative personalities and their misuse of energy. Toxic people love to scream and rant about what is wrong with everything and everyone. They try to ignite fear in others. The next time your world comes crashing down all around you and you feel like you are being targeted with negative images fueled by terror and fear, stop everything. Step back and go refocus and re-energize yourself. Turn to Source of All That Is. Rather then feeling exhausted and irritated you will feel energized and alive. Rather then feeling unjustly attacked you will feel protected and safe. Rather then feeling rejected and unappreciated you will feel accepted, acknowledged and loved. Here are a few suggestions on recycling your feelings. 1.Never surrender your joy. Learn to deflect rather then engage. Educate and communicate. If someone shouts sky is falling, you might say "yes, but its such a beautiful color blue, and on such a perfect glorious day"? In other words, anchor yourself in present moment where peace and goodness prevail. The negative energy will boomerang if you are not resonating with it. 2.Do your best to lighten up and resist urge to challenge negative people if you are still resonating from old fearful feelings. It takes two to tango. Either walk off dance floor or do a solo. 3.If someone close to you is content to run their mouth on latest disease that is sure to wipe out planet, rather then succumb to their gloom and doom, you might remind them that "All is well in bigger picture". As soon as you can, find a reason to end conversation. 4.Look for opportunities to uplift yourself. 5.No one can stop you from thinking wonderful, creative, prosperous thoughts. As you do this you will set desirable things into motion. 6.Believe that everything is simply magnificent in your life. The happier you are, more room there is for fulfillment of dreams. 7.Pay attention to your feelings. They are always telling you if you are drawing your dream to yourself or pushing it away. 8.The moment you feel yourself on a negative course pay attention to signal. Change directions and start focusing in direction of solution. "Your Feelings are your point of attraction. What you seek (feel) is seeking you. Simply put this means you are always free to move in and out of any feeling/frequency at any moment you desire to experience a new result." Your emotions are your inner guides. They tell you what direction your life experience is going in. The more frustrated and irritated you are more you know your dreams and life remain unfulfilled. The more joy filled you are more you know you are fulfilling your destiny. What are your emotions telling you?
Melissa Zollo is a leading edge thinker and voice in holistic consciousness on inspiring topics that teach people how to access the Power Within and demonstrate healing principles in their daily lives. She teaches the Power of Imagination and the Art of Intentional Creation, the Law of Consciousness, and the Law of Identical Harvest. Her empowering ideas create a unique synergy that assists serious seekers to become conscious co- creators.
| | Can This Relationship Be Helped?Written by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
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Let’s take some examples. Craig is unhappy in his marriage because his wife, Gloria, is often angry and judgmental toward him. Craig sees himself as victim of Gloria’s unloving behavior, blaming her for his unhappiness. However, Craig is a equal part of relationship system. He generally reacts to Gloria’s anger with compliance, giving himself up in his covert attempt to control Gloria’s anger. He believes that being a "nice guy" will control her feelings and behavior. So, while Gloria is attempting to overtly control Craig, Craig is attempting to covertly control Gloria. Until Craig starts to speak his truth rather than give himself up as his form of control, he will feel resentful and distant with Gloria. If he has courage to take loving care of himself by speaking his total truth without blame or judgment, and take loving action for himself based on his truth, then either things will get better or they will get worse. The only way Craig will be able to be honest and take care of himself is if he is willing to lose Gloria rather than continue to lose himself. Marilyn is married to Martin, a non-abusive functioning alcoholic. The problem for Marilyn is that when Martin drinks, which is every night, he completely disconnects from her and she feel very lonely with him. She’s tried in many ways to get Martin to connect to her, but nothing has worked. Most nights, Marilyn just watches TV, feeling sad and alone. Until Marilyn decides to do whatever she needs to do to make herself happy, nothing will change. If she decides to take classes, get together with friends, join a support group or go to Alanon, she will no longer be a victim of Martin’s decision to withdraw through alcohol. If Marilyn continues to take care of herself over a time - six months to a year - and nothing changes, then she can decide to leave. Or, she can decide to stay and just continue making herself happy. The possibility also exist that when Marilyn stops pulling on Martin to make her happy, he may decide to deal with himself rather than be left alone most of time. Can this relationship be helped? Maybe. Do your own inner work and find out!
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?", "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By My Kids?", "Healing Your Aloneness","Inner Bonding", and "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God?" Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com
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