The 5 Words That Are Ruining Your Life

Written by Sopan Greene, M.A.


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If you catch yourself before you 'should' on yourself you'll see thatrepparttar 'should' that feels so important is just another belief that you can choose to change.

Our minds can be our worst enemies. Our minds are constantly making up stuff about whats good/bad, right/wrong, important/irrelevant, etc. We are run by these beliefs, many of which are arbitrary and constantly changing.

Think about an issue that tends to worry you over and over. Why is this worry imprisoning you by creating a ton of stress when a lot of other people aren't even aware of it?

We all pick different issues and beat ourselves up about getting these issues done, getting them right, takig care of them etc. They only feel important to us because our minds made up that they're important issues. Atrepparttar 123282 same time we're totally unaware of other issues that other people are constantly worrying about. It's silly and it also causes heart attacks.

The most problematic two words ever put together are 'good enough.' What exactly is good enough? Nothing is. Is doesn't exist. It's a subjective choice that's like a carrot on a stick that is impossible to achieve. It moves farther away with every new accomplishment.

'Good enough' is an American complex. It may exist in other countries (thoughrepparttar 123283 Spanish language doesn't even have words to describe it), but in America it's inrepparttar 123284 air we breathe.

Most Americans feel like they're 'not good enough.' But if you ask them (or yourself), "What would be good enough?" they're dumbfounded. They don't have an answer as to what signifies achieving 'good enough.' All they know is that they can find millions of other people who appear (key word) to have things they don't have. They think that if they had all these things, maybe they would be good enough ...until they see something else they don't have that they think they want, need, can't get or should have. I invite you to choose one of these words a day to stop using. Catch yourself beforerepparttar 123285 word leaves your lips. Ifrepparttar 123286 word gets out simply correct yourself with a powerful positive statement.

If you're about to say, "I want to go torepparttar 123287 movies," then instead simply say "I would like to go torepparttar 123288 movies." or "I choose to go torepparttar 123289 movies." Now you're using words that create possibility and express responsibility. Doesn't it feel better when you speak like this? Yes, it does. It's because your speaking from a place of power.

It's your life. Choose to create it with words that reflectrepparttar 123290 responsible, powerful masterful spirit that you are.

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Why Hire a Coach?

Written by JP Meyers


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Often, people have a vision and a plan, but it's always "tomorrow." Tomorrow they will start. They're too tired tonight. The economy is lousy. It will take too long to achieve that dream. It's too expensive. There's no time.

There are a million excuses, but no reasons NOT to pursue your vision for an ideal life. If you have a vision and a plan, but lackrepparttar motivation to get there, a coach can help. A coach helps to troubleshootrepparttar 123281 barriers that stop you in your tracks so that those impassable mountains become molehills. A coach finds out what drives you and what keeps you on track, as well as recognizing when you are slacking off. A coach keeps you accountable and will ask you regularly if you're doing what you say you really want.

Where are you in your life? Do you have a vision of where you want to be, what you want to do, how you want to live? Maybe you have a vision, but you don’t have a plan. Any maybe you have bothrepparttar 123282 vision andrepparttar 123283 plan but need help motivating yourself to followrepparttar 123284 plan. A coach can help you at any stage of this process so that you can see that vision, design that plan, or be inspired to motivate yourself toward your goals.

Many people can and do achieve their dreams alone. And many more people benefit fromrepparttar 123285 guidance, focus, and accountability a coach offers.

So, why would you need a coach? Simply, to help you reach your dreams so thatrepparttar 123286 life you live isrepparttar 123287 life you want to live. Your life is beckoning - do you haverepparttar 123288 vision, plan, and motivation to get there?

Jacqueline ("JP") Meyers, a principal at PSG, coaches clients to find their best potential: as entrepreneurs, business leaders, individuals and in life. After earning her MBA JP has spent the past sixteen years working as both an internal and external consultant and coach, implementing HR systems and facilitating change locally and internationally. Her background involves consulting in the health care, retail and manufacturing industries.


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