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Wouldn't you agree that in order for her acceptance rate to increase her sexual value would have to increase. (i.e lose weight or something). The right approach: 1 You must increase your sexual value.
Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 3
The wrong approach: Trying to give her pills/herbs to make her horny. Here is why thinking is flawed.
You can read a similar analogy on superhappysex.com (scroll down to first Yellow Box)
If you have no sexual value then it doesn't matter if pills succeed in getting her horny. This actually could work against you in some cases. Here's deal, if she gets horny and you have no sexual value, then she would rather masturbate than to have sex with you.
And reason why it could work against you over long run is because if she is always in a horny state then guys that have sexual value in her eyes are ones that are going to be more appealing - over time.
Does that make sense?
Let's say we lived in a world where a pig could talk and interact with you, but they still had sexual value of a regular pig. By way: This analogy was nominated for Bizarre Analogy Award. (thatís a joke)
Let's say this pig gave you (secretly or non-secretly) 2 pills of HERBAL-X ROCK HARD. These pills had 90000 mg of Yohimbe and 90000 mg of Ginseng, and any herb you can think of it had 90000 mgs of it (and miraculously your heart didnít explode!)..in seconds your member was up in air! (approx 5 degrees away from your belly).
Would you screw pig if you became super aroused? The answer is no. (right?) The pig has no sexual value. So in order for you to screw pig, it would have to increase his sexual value. It would have to maybe put on some fishnet stockings (or shed that nasty gut).
The right approach: 1 You must increase your sexual value. Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 4
The wrong approach: Asking her to explain why she is not in mood? Here is why thinking is flawed.
The guy thinks his wife will tell him why she isnít sexually attracted to him (anymore). And then all he has to is make changes, and then presto!
The problem is she doesn't know. She knows what she is consciously attracted to (i.e nice guy that does nice things Ė i.e her husband or man she loves) but she doesn't know what she is unconsciously attracted to.
[By way Ė Any guy that has read superlustbuttons.com knows what I mean. When you read that, you are going to beg me to take site down so that other guys donít use that secret system]
The mechanisms that inspire horniness is foreign to her. She doesn't know what moves her on a deep down level. Here's an example. If you asked a person that just gave up on diet why he is no longer on diet, he is not going to give you real (deep down) answer.
However, he will give you false (surface Ė or what he thinks) answer and he may believe this is truth but it's not truth.
His surface answer will be that diet failed, or that it was a dumb diet - something like that. But real (deep down) reason is because he may have never believed he could succeed in first place.
He may have had no hope. He may have to increase his will-power. He may not have been serious about solving his problem. The right approach: You must increase your sexual value. She responds unconsciously to things that she is not aware of.
Warmly, CR James
Author of Super Sex Power: Magnetism SuperHappySex.com
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