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6. Offers an opportunity to stay current regarding upcoming commitments, activities, and events. Family meetings are wonderful opportunities to review
family calendar, clarify who needs to be where and when, as well as who will be taking responsibility for what. Once again, clear communication and joint planning can relieve ongoing stress of busy lives.
7. Gives an avenue to celebrate each other’s successes. This is most important. Family meetings should always contain a time to celebrate successes of each family member during week. These need not be big, monumental events but can simply be every day successes. This not only creates pride and joy in daily life, but also forms habit in each family member of looking for positive in one another.
8. Provides time to plan family vacations, activities, and special events. This gives everyone in family a chance to give their input into a family trip or experience, rather than adults always doing planning. When whole family is involved, everyone is much more likely to enjoy event. Investment in family activities, for each member, is often directly proportional to his or her involvement in planning. A richer shared experience is most often result.
9. Establish a safe, respectful environment to problem solve. By following family’s operating principles, and with open and honest communication, children will learn that problems can be discussed openly and solved respectfully together. Creating win-win solutions takes practice, for adults as well as for children and youth.
10. Have fun together These meetings provide a great opportunity for family to participate in fun family activities. As family members get to know one another better, share stories, laugh, and problem solve together, deeper relationships develop. Try to weave fun into every family meeting.
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I earned by doctorate degree from Seattle University in 1982. I recently retired from the superintendent's job and work just part time as a coach to people who studying to become principals and superintendents. I am excited to provide this same kind of support to parents and other educators who may learn of my services.
