· Discuss with your child how to say no. Sometimes children don't know how to say no to peers who ask them to do dangerous or risky things. After identifying ways that she might be tempted, teach your child a three-step process for self-protection:

1. Apply "trouble" rule: Will this action break a law or rule?

2. Make a good decision--think carefully about risks or possible consequences.

3. Act fast to avoid trouble, using options such as following:

--Say no!

--Leave.

--Make a joke

--Suggest something better to do.

--Make an excuse such as, "My dad will get really mad."

--Act shocked.

How To Pick The Right Costume I have given many costumes as gifts and have found that you can't go wrong giving a little girl a Barbie costume. However, here are some tips to make perfect selection: * Find out what TV shows child likes to watch. Often, costumes of main characters are available. * Does child have a favorite movie? There are numerous licensed movie costumes available. * Be sure to buy an 'Official Licensed Costume' if available. This will help ensure that child will be able to recognize costume, as it will be made according to licensing specifications. * Check size and buy right one. Nothing is more disappointing than receiving a costume and it not fitting. Make sure you buy right size. If you are not sure, buy larger size.

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