I do not mean to pick on little girls, and I know that all children go through phases. As well, do not mistake my offended nature of boldness with a prudish character. In school I would have much more likely been found in middle of a fight rather than a sewing circle. Nevertheless, it seems to me that today’s girls are missing out on something. Remember saying that you catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar. There is a thick line between being our best and being better than someone else. This principle can encompass life in general. The sense of satisfaction we feel when we have surpassed our best surely beats clawing and scratching our way through others simply to prove ourselves superior. Either way we may or may not win. But, in beating our own best, we stay focused over that which we have control – ourselves; and not external factors – impending sources of perpetual frustration. And, do not forget that you will make far less enemies in process.

As parents, these are lessons that we must teach our children, boys included. You do not have to be best at every sport, loudest at every debate nor most academic in classroom. There will be plenty of competition as your children grow. Why not let them enjoy childhood without pressure to always reign supreme amongst their peers? Blocked obstacles breed hostility and guilt, especially when it involves fear of disappointing a parent with high expectations. I cannot help but think that sometimes aggressiveness I see in these potentially good-natured little girls comes not from a pre-determined genetic slate, but instead, programming from a disgruntled parent who has yet to come to terms with insecurities resulting from their own perceived inadequacies as a child.

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There are now online jewellers who allow you to design your own ring.

For example it is possible to design your own Titanium mens wedding band using a whole variety of Titanium colors. You choose your own ring shape, size and color or mix of colors and add any one of a variety of gemstones to it as you wish. These can be placed exactly as you desire to create a really unique men’s wedding band unlike anything anyone else has anywhere in world.

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And why not get REALLY adventurous if you wish. For those who want something right out of ordinary there are many options.

Zodiac mens wedding rings are stunning. Available in all zodiac signs a zodiac ring will turn head. Large and very visible a zodiac ring is not for faint hearted but for man who wants to be noticed it is a ring that must be considered. And two tone zodiac rings are even better!

Not suitable for a wedding ring? Who says! For man who wants to be unique it doesn’t matter. If he, and she, both like it then it works for them. That’s all that matters.

How about mens gambling rings? For gamblers amongst us there are rings featuring all manner of gambling symbols. How about a gold and diamond roulette ring? It really does have a tiny roulette wheel, with numbers.

Or a gold and diamond spinning dice ring that really does have 2 tiny dice? Or a gold spinning black jack ring.

Even unusual gemstones can be made into most unique mens wedding bands. Two tone rings with Tanzanite anyone? Gold with Blue Topaz? Gold, Diamond and Garnet?

So although wearing of mens wedding bands is relatively new, it doesn’t have to be boring. These types of rings are not for everyone, but for man who wants a really unique mens wedding band there are lots of choices.

It’s just a case of how unique do you want to be!!!