You've heard that your consistent thoughts become your reality. Affirmation is one of most powerful ways to make something you desire become your consistent thought.

To make your subconscious mind quickly accept your affirmation as a truth, you have to patiently convince it by telling it truths again and again.

Here is truth you must remind yourself every time you say your affirmation.

"At deeper level, I am connected to highest intelligence in universe that has created and will be creating everything in physical world. Therefore, I have power to create everything I desire at anytime. I am source of everything. Now I choose to see my desires manifested in my world."

Step 4: Monitoring your thoughts moment by moment, and keep state of being.

The mind always has a tendency to think negatively, this is nature of human beings, it is result of human evolution. This negative pattern has helped us during evolution process by keeping us alert to dangers, but it has also become our biggest enemy on our road to enlightenment. Fortunately, God has given us an inner guidance system that will make us be aware of any negative thought. This guidance system is our emotion system. Any time you have a negative thought, you will feel a negative emotion. This is very, very accurate. As you have already learned, your emotion is your communication to universe. Every time you have a negative emotion, you are miss-creating.

You must be very sensitive to your emotions, once you feel a negative emotion, correct it in moment, don't let it accumulate, kill monster when it is young. Replace negative emotion by a positive one by thinking of your goals, repeating your affirmations, and thinking about anything you feel grateful for. Then you are back on track again.

Besides monitoring your negative thoughts, you should consciously create positive feelings and emotions. The best way to do this is to keep state of being, which means feel that your desires have already come true, you already have possession of it. This is fastest way to bring your desires into reality.

Step five: Get connected to your higher self through daily meditation.

Your higher self is part of ultimate creative intelligence, it knows how to bring your desires into reality, but you must give it a chance to speak to you. The best time you can communicate with your higher self is at time of meditation. Whatever message you get from your higher self, act upon it immediately. This is most powerful assistance you can get. People always make mistake of looking outside for answers, real answer is always within themselves.

I personally use a japa meditation taught by Dr. Wayne Dyer, this meditation really gives me joy of creation. You can choose any form of meditation you want, even just sit silently for 20 minutes every day will greatly benefit.

Step 6: Surrender.

Each day before you go to bed, surrender to universe by putting full faith in it, let universe work on your desires even when you are sleeping.

Say this prayer before you retire.

"I let universe take care of all details and bring me what I ask for. I am grateful for this powerful assistance. I trust it 100%."

Implementing this 6-step manifestation process, you will never have to worry about not having your desires again. You will truly experience joy of manifestation.

Only when we relate to feelings of another person do we connect, and only when we connect can we truly influence. Our excitement about an idea, or about its usefulness to well-being of another (compassion) is much more likely to effect another person and to influence their behavior than a strictly intellectual analysis of an idea, or strident forcing of one's own opinions on others, or even of "giving orders".

Sadder still if we're in some position of power over other and they 'must' listen to us, at least for a time. This applies to parents, lovers, colleagues, bosses, managers, and any of us at any given time. Think of last time you were "a captive audience" to person next to you in airplane.

Good EQ means having a clue about feelings of other person, and knowing effect that you have them; and, I would add, etiquette and common decency demand that more person MUST listen to you, more considerate you should be in delivery and content of what you're saying.

Never come on any stronger than you have to. In other words, don't send a cannon when a fly swatter would do. And don't annoy and bore others. There are two types of people who do this -- those who don't care, and those who don't know they're doing it. EQ means knowing effect you have on others.

This involves watching nonverbals that go on in an encounter. Noticing if person you're talking to becomes uneasy (shifting position, losing eye contact, yawning), becomes bored (eyes rolling back in head, fidgeting, yawning), angry (tense body posture, arms folded), or digusted (lip curled, eyes squinting and/or averted).

Notice that almost any nonverbal communicator can mean several different things, and sometimes can mean opposite things. For instance, a person who becomes agitated when being “questioned,” can do so either because they’re lying OR because they’re a hyper-honest person who’s afraid. Any given ‘signal’ depends upon grouping and context. If you need to know more about nonverbal communication, read by new ebook, "Nonverbal Communication - What You Say Isn't What Says It All" or sign up for some coaching.

And please, don't get in someone else's face and BARK!

If there is a little animal inside us (and there is), it responds way all animals do - to tone of voice. Check out this site ( http://www.dogtrainingbasics.com/commands.html ) and listen to recordings of what 'works' for praise and for command. Women, they say, have trouble giving "bad dog" tone, and men have trouble giving "good dog" tone.

However, getting in someone's face and barking is not gender-specific. Both intimidating growl and finger-shaking school m'arm approach are to be avoided if you want others to listen to you, or, more importantly, want them to WANT to listen to you. We all have amazing powers for “tuning out.”

If you want people to listen to what you’re going to say, make sure they’re tuning IN, not OUT.