"Step-By-Step Guide to Manifest Your Desires"

Written by song chengxiang


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You've heard that your consistent thoughts become your reality. Affirmation is one ofrepparttar most powerful ways to make something you desire become your consistent thought.

To make your subconscious mind quickly accept your affirmation as a truth, you have to patiently convince it by telling itrepparttar 128934 truths again and again.

Here isrepparttar 128935 truth you must remind yourself every time you say your affirmation.

"Atrepparttar 128936 deeper level, I am connected torepparttar 128937 highest intelligence inrepparttar 128938 universe that has created and will be creating everything inrepparttar 128939 physical world. Therefore, I haverepparttar 128940 power to create everything I desire at anytime. I amrepparttar 128941 source of everything. Now I choose to see my desires manifested in my world."

Step 4: Monitoring your thoughts moment by moment, and keep repparttar 128942 state of being.

The mind always has a tendency to think negatively, this is repparttar 128943 nature of human beings, it isrepparttar 128944 result of human evolution. This negative pattern has helped us duringrepparttar 128945 evolution process by keeping us alert torepparttar 128946 dangers, but it has also become our biggest enemy on our road to enlightenment. Fortunately, God has given us an inner guidance system that will make us be aware of any negative thought. This guidance system is our emotion system. Any time you have a negative thought, you will feel a negative emotion. This is very, very accurate. As you have already learned, your emotion is your communication torepparttar 128947 universe. Every time you have a negative emotion, you are miss-creating.

You must be very sensitive to your emotions, once you feel a negative emotion, correct it inrepparttar 128948 moment, don't let it accumulate, killrepparttar 128949 monster when it is young. Replacerepparttar 128950 negative emotion by a positive one by thinking of your goals, repeating your affirmations, and thinking about anything you feel grateful for. Then you are back on track again.

Besides monitoring your negative thoughts, you should consciously create positive feelings and emotions. The best way to do this is to keeprepparttar 128951 state of being, which means feel that your desires have already come true, you already have possession of it. This isrepparttar 128952 fastest way to bring your desires into reality.

Step five: Get connected to your higher self through daily meditation.

Your higher self is part ofrepparttar 128953 ultimate creative intelligence, it knows how to bring your desires into reality, but you must give it a chance to speak to you. The best time you can communicate with your higher self is at repparttar 128954 time of meditation. Whatever message you get from your higher self, act upon it immediately. This isrepparttar 128955 most powerful assistance you can get. People always makerepparttar 128956 mistake of looking outside forrepparttar 128957 answers,repparttar 128958 real answer is always within themselves.

I personally use a japa meditation taught by Dr. Wayne Dyer, this meditation really gives merepparttar 128959 joy of creation. You can choose any form of meditation you want, even just sit silently for 20 minutes every day will greatly benefit.

Step 6: Surrender.

Each day before you go to bed, surrender torepparttar 128960 universe by putting full faith in it, letrepparttar 128961 universe work on your desires even when you are sleeping.

Say this prayer before you retire.

"I letrepparttar 128962 universe take care of allrepparttar 128963 details and bring me what I ask for. I am grateful for this powerful assistance. I trust it 100%."

Implementing this 6-step manifestation process, you will never have to worry about not having your desires again. You will truly experiencerepparttar 128964 joy of manifestation.



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Having the Right Effect on Other People

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Life and EQ Coach


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Only when we relate torepparttar feelings of another person do we connect, and only when we connect can we truly influence. Our excitement about an idea, or about its usefulness torepparttar 128932 well-being of another (compassion) is much more likely to effect another person and to influence their behavior than a strictly intellectual analysis of an idea, orrepparttar 128933 strident forcing of one's own opinions on others, or even of "giving orders".

Sadder still if we're in some position of power overrepparttar 128934 other and they 'must' listen to us, at least for a time. This applies to parents, lovers, colleagues, bosses, managers, and any of us at any given time. Think ofrepparttar 128935 last time you were "a captive audience" torepparttar 128936 person next to you inrepparttar 128937 airplane.

Good EQ means having a clue aboutrepparttar 128938 feelings ofrepparttar 128939 other person, and knowingrepparttar 128940 effect that you have them; and, I would add, etiquette and common decency demand thatrepparttar 128941 morerepparttar 128942 person MUST listen to you,repparttar 128943 more considerate you should be inrepparttar 128944 delivery and content of what you're saying.

Never come on any stronger than you have to. In other words, don't send a cannon when a fly swatter would do. And don't annoy and bore others. There are two types of people who do this -- those who don't care, and those who don't know they're doing it. EQ means knowingrepparttar 128945 effect you have on others.

This involves watchingrepparttar 128946 nonverbals that go on in an encounter. Noticing ifrepparttar 128947 person you're talking to becomes uneasy (shifting position, losing eye contact, yawning), becomes bored (eyes rolling back inrepparttar 128948 head, fidgeting, yawning), angry (tense body posture, arms folded), or digusted (lip curled, eyes squinting and/or averted).

Notice that almost any nonverbal communicator can mean several different things, and sometimes can mean opposite things. For instance, a person who becomes agitated when being “questioned,” can do so either because they’re lying OR because they’re a hyper-honest person who’s afraid. Any given ‘signal’ depends uponrepparttar 128949 grouping andrepparttar 128950 context. If you need to know more about nonverbal communication, read by new ebook, "Nonverbal Communication - What You Say Isn't What Says It All" or sign up for some coaching.

And please, don't get in someone else's face and BARK!

If there is a little animal inside us (and there is), it respondsrepparttar 128951 way all animals do - to tone of voice. Check out this site ( http://www.dogtrainingbasics.com/commands.html ) and listen torepparttar 128952 recordings of what 'works' for praise and for command. Women, they say, have trouble givingrepparttar 128953 "bad dog" tone, and men have trouble givingrepparttar 128954 "good dog" tone.

However, getting in someone's face and barking is not gender-specific. Bothrepparttar 128955 intimidating growl andrepparttar 128956 finger-shaking school m'arm approach are to be avoided if you want others to listen to you, or, more importantly, want them to WANT to listen to you. We all have amazing powers for “tuning out.”

If you want people to listen to what you’re going to say, make sure they’re tuning IN, not OUT.

©Susan Dunn, MA, Life Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . Susan is the author of “Nonverbal Communication,” and coaches people on success skills focusing on emotional intelligence. She also offers Internet and email courses, and an ebook library. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine.


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