Start focusing on what you really want now.Written by Darryn Aldridge
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3) Look For The Good Side. No matter what situation, train yourself to look at a good side of where you are now. For instance, what if you are really unhappy with your current job? Stop focussing on fact that you hate your job, instead take positives from what you are getting out of it at moment. For example, you are recieving money, you probably learnt a skill that you can use later in another job, you are meeting people and possably developing friendships and so much more. Now if you really do hate your job, then you need to look for something that you will enjoy, but at same time be content knowing that it is short term and that you are getting something from your current position. Use this time to learn as much as you can so you can take these exeriences on with you to next job. 4)Action Your Dreams. This is one of hardest, yet one of most rewarding tasks. Your dream will forever be a dream unless you take some form of action to make it a reality. You need to focus your thoughts on why you want this to happen and then use all that positive energy to push past any fears you may have. Know deep down inside that it will happen, really believe it, and guess what.. you will start to find ways to achieve it. Remember, don't focus on what you DON'T want (eg I don't want this job I'm in) but focus on what you do want and GET EXCITED ABOUT IT. The more excited you become, better chances are that you will succeed. 5)Ignore Negative Advice. Loved ones, friends and aquaintances will often unintentionally offer advice and comments that are less than useful to your cause. The trick is to listen to advice offered, decide if it serves any purpose to your cause, and if not, discard it without dwelling on it. If you let negative thoughts occupy your mind for too long they start to alter your perception on how you see things, and may steer you from your original course. Your mind is driving force behind everything you do. Ultimately you have final say on how you perceive and react to circumstances and challenges. Being aware of your thoughts and emotions will help you to move away from negative thinking and remind you to look at these issues from a different point of view. Your negative thoughts are just a habit that you have picked up from a lifetime of being surrounded by negativity. You have option to change this habit at any moment. Use that power now and take back control of your life.

Darryn Aldridge is the co-author of a step-by-step, "tell it and show it how it is" guide to permanently losing weight and keeping it off forever! Visit his web site at http://www.diet-ebook.com and sign up for a free weekly newsletter,filled with helpful tips and useful information.
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The texture of this life giving butter is smooth and creamy. However, since early part of this century, a new way to make shea butter even more luxurious and soft is to blend it with high quality plant and seed oils in order to create a whipped cream like texture which glides onto your skin. Whipped Shea Butter can be made by those who know which combinations of oils and shea butter can be whipped together to create that natural moisturizer your skin needs and yet not be too heavy/greasy. Properly made whipped shea butter is light, creamy and fluffy and resembles Cool Whip yet doesn’t need to be refrigerated. In 2003 Google’s search engine returned only 80 matches for whipped shea butter. Nowadays, it’s over 2000! However, for those of you unfamiliar with this wonderful product, whipped shea butter is always 100% natural, containing only shea butter and vegetable/plant/seed oils and an antioxidant such as vitamin E. It can be found unscented or with added fragrances/essential oils. Whipped Shea butter doesn’t have any type of wax, water, preservatives, or petroleum/mineral oils. Whipped Shea Butter is always light, creamy and fluffy, making it easily absorbed into your skin. This is one of most versatile products available as it can be used as a hair conditioner, makeup remover, all-over moisturizer, softens cuticles, and always soothes dry or chapped skin. Lighter in weight than plain shea butter, whipped shea butter is a sumptuous yet economical way to pamper body’s largest organ – your skin.

Lisa Maliga, owner of Everything Shea Aromatic Creations http://www.everythingshea.com offers a fragrant selection of designer shea butter glycerin soaps, exclusive Whipped Shea Butter, & unique SoapCakes to personalize for gifts or promotions.
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