Speak With a Relaxed Body and Mind

Written by Sandra Schrift


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6. Rehearse, rehearse, rehearse. Talk out loud, and walk around while you practice. Userepparttar same physical energy you plan to use onrepparttar 130261 day of your presentation.

7. Exercise is antidote to stress. Arrive early and take a brisk walk for at least five minutes. If it is raining or snowing outside, you can still do some body stretches.

8. Abstain from caffeine and alcohol before you speak. You don’t need more jitters. Always wear your favorite outfit and use attractive colors. Women, go simple onrepparttar 130262 jewelry. Avoid too much black and white.

9. The Coach Sez... Most of all, enjoy yourself and have a fun. SMILE. After all, aren’t you glad to be there? The sign of a mature adult is that you are not taking yourself too seriously

10. For trembling hands, place your hand sonrepparttar 130263 side of your chair and count to 10 as you try to liftrepparttar 130264 seat. This is an isometric exercise that works and nobody will notice you doing it.

11. Don’t be perfect. Give yourself permission to make mistakes, No one is perfect in real life. Getrepparttar 130265 butterflies in your stomach to fly in formation. That’s who you convert your stress into speaking power!

12. Reduce your nervousness by taking several deep breaths immediately before you’re introduced. And for you chocoholics, eat some chocolate to relax your vocal chords.

13. If you experience dry mouth, chew your tongue to increase saliva flow. Singers do this. Close your lips and bite down onrepparttar 130266 entire surface. Always have a glass of tepid(not cold) water nearby.

14. Focus on a friendly face inrepparttar 130267 audience. Pretend you are having a conversation, rather than giving a speech. Just be yourself.

15. Here is a vocal warm-up exercise used atrepparttar 130268 Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts in London. Say, PaPaPaPa, BaBaBaBa, TaTaTaTa, DaDaDaDa, KaKaKaKa, GaGaGaGa. Then do it backwards. (Courtesy of Robert and Rande Gedaliah)

Sandra Schrift 13 year speaker bureau owner and now career coach to emerging and veteran public speakers who want to "grow" a profitable speaking business. I also work with business professionals and organizations who want to master their presentations. To find out HOW TO MAKE IT AS A PROFESSIONAL SPEAKER, go to http://www.schrift.com/success_resources.htm Join my free bi-weekly Monday Morning Mindfulness ezine http://www.schrift.com/monday.htm


Ace the Job Interview with Emotional Intelligence

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach


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6.Work on your nonverbal communication.

90% of what we communicate at any given time is not through words, but by nonverbal communication such as expressions, gestures, and posture.

7.Expectrepparttar best.

Your self-talk is very important allrepparttar 130258 time, and particularly in an interview. Remember it’s YOU who putsrepparttar 130259 thoughts into your own head. (If someone else has done this and you aren’t mindful, get some coaching. It can be changed.) If you go into an interview thinking, i.e., saying to yourself, “I’ll never get this job,” or “no one would ever hire someone my age,” or “here comes another rejection,” you are setting yourself up for defeat. Instead program your thinking.

8.Be mindful of your attributions. They will color your expectations and influence your ability to succeed.

Learned optimism means bad attributing things in a way that isn’t personal, permanent or pervasive. If you don’t getrepparttar 130260 job, attribute it to something not personal (“That interviewer doesn’t know a good candidate when he sees one”), not permanent (“Well, I’m sure I’ll getrepparttar 130261 next job”), and not pervasive (“Not getting that particular job doesn’t reflect on my abilities orrepparttar 130262 rest of my life”).

9.Claim your successes.

When you do getrepparttar 130263 job, and you will, celebrate. This is crucial to your self-esteem and personal power. Attribute it to things personal, permanent, and pervasive. In other words, don’t say it was just luck, orrepparttar 130264 fact that no one else applied. Tell yourself it was because you wererepparttar 130265 best candidate, this is a fact of your life, and applies to your life in general. You gotrepparttar 130266 job because you deserved to get it. It is crucial that you celebrate your successes in order to build resilience and manage your self-talk.

10.Get out of your own wake.

If you’ve been on a cruise, and looked atrepparttar 130267 stern ofrepparttar 130268 ship, there’s a lot of commotion going on back there. The bow ofrepparttar 130269 ship is thrusting cleanly throughrepparttar 130270 water, but behindrepparttar 130271 ship there’s churning water that even smart fish haverepparttar 130272 sense to keep away from. It isn’t necessarily bad, and there isn’t much to be learned from it. It’s just whatrepparttar 130273 ship has to do to go forward. Ifrepparttar 130274 outcome of one interview was bad, just keep going forward. Don’t look back.

©Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc . I teach individuals to master change and transform their lives through the power of emotional intelligence. Individual coaching, Internet courses, and ebooks (http://www.webstrategies.cc/ebooklibrary.html ) -- a total program for your personal and professional development. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine.


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