So in first stages online dating, be skeptical. Don't buy into a message, profile, or something you've been told (the old saying still holds water--if it's too good to be true, it probably is!). The anonymity of internet lets people be anything they want and often it's a completely false persona. So take your time and get to know someone. Don't rush things. Don't get into intimate conversations. And most importantly, if you get that yucky feeling, don't argue with it! Just quickly retreat from situation and thank Lord for His guidance.

Tip #3: A Picture Says a Thousand Words

Looks may not be everything, but in online dating game, a picture can save you a big headache down line. If there's not a photo on website already, always ask for one before setting up a meeting. It confirms what profile tells you and gives you an idea of what they look like (important to some, not so much to others). If person balks at this for any reason, don't get involved any further. They're obviously trying to keep something hidden from you, possibly a spouse. How would you feel if you showed a picture of your new beau to someone and they said, "Oh, that's so-and-so's husband." Talk about embarrassing! Caution is key here. Use it in abundance and again, listen for voice of Lord.

In part 2 of this series, we’ll look at dos and don’ts of meeting face-to-face.