Should I Spy? - 4 More Legitimate Reasons to Spy on your Cheating Husband or Wife

Written by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach


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It isrepparttar proverbial elephant sitting inrepparttar 122021 room that no one dare talk about. People take extraordinary measures to tip toe around it, but it IS there. Emotionally, you canít miss it.

Secrets are a drain. Ifrepparttar 122022 secret persists, its impact is felt in subtle but insidious ways. People become physically ill, sometimes seriously so. People become depressed. People start doing crazy things.

Children start acting out, stop achieving, become listless or exhibit a host of other symptoms. Children, orrepparttar 122023 next generation, often carryrepparttar 122024 emotional load.

You want to spy because you donít want to live with a secret. You want to discoverrepparttar 122025 truth. You want to feelrepparttar 122026 freeing power ofrepparttar 122027 exposed secret andrepparttar 122028 opportunity it offers for healing, resolution, a rich relationship and a productive life.

4. Some of us like drama. Soap opera scenarios and adrenaline based lives are a hallmark of our society. We get juiced or pumped up entering into emotional relational triangles that offer intrigue.

Without adrenaline, life seems boring or mundane. Perhaps an unspoken reason for an affair may be to fanrepparttar 122029 fire? Or, you may spy on your cheating spouse to keeprepparttar 122030 sense of being alive a part of your life.



Dr. Huizenga, the "Infidelity Coach," hosts the free Website: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com , which helps couples deal with emotional infidelity and Extramarital affairs. If you think your spouse is cheating, visit today.


Should I Spy? - Is Spying on a Cheating Spouse an Invasion of Privacy?

Written by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach


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You saw clearlyrepparttar signs of a cheating spouse. The affair invadedrepparttar 122020 domain of your marriage and crumbled its protective boundaries. The marital infidelity brokerepparttar 122021 contract ofrepparttar 122022 marriage; it wasrepparttar 122023 act of betrayal. Spying does not damagerepparttar 122024 marriage. It is an attempt to seekrepparttar 122025 truth and resolverepparttar 122026 pain and deception.

Spying is often used to grasprepparttar 122027 reality ofrepparttar 122028 situation. Itís intent is to findrepparttar 122029 truth. Onlyrepparttar 122030 truth can provide a foundation from which to begin resolvingrepparttar 122031 hurt, pain and forging a direction forrepparttar 122032 marriage and enable each person inrepparttar 122033 marriage to attain health and sanity.



Dr. Huizenga, the "Infidelity Coach," hosts the free Website: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com, which helps couples deal with emotional infidelity and Extramarital affairs. If you think your spouse is cheating, visit today.


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